Another idea, several years ago, my car was stolen due to my dd trusting the wrong kind of people. I was so mad and hurt. So I gave it over to God and forgot about it. Yep, two years later I get a call from the police they found my car in Florida.
First thing I did was to thank God he gave it back to me. My dd has taken care of that car now on 3 years and restored my faith in her.
Moral, give your hurt etc. to God and let him carry the burden. The quilts will love you for it.