Originally Posted by
Onebyone
Easy. Next time she has a quilt for you say I'm going to have to charge you my regular rate from now on. Do not give any reasons or excuses why. Smile and change the subject immediately with the other women there. A is the type to take advantage as long as someone lets her and you have let her. Time to say the favor is over.
Good advice. Someone once told me "No is a complete sentence". You don't have to explain to anyone why you are saying no to their request. If you want to be nice say "I'm sorry, no". As Onebyone says, change subject move on to another conversation, whatever, but don't let her steamroll you.