I'm still married to t the same man - 64 years today. We still annoy each other at times - but it's way too much bother to try and catch and train a new one. Besides, neither one of us wants to move again. Maybe out to the couch if one of us is snoring really loudly.
Kind of funny - he will "notice" if I have left a light or the TV on - but he left the radio on for hours and the multiple lights on in the garage when he was not in there. Apparently, the electric meter only ran when I did not turn something off if I was not using it that minute.