Just consider the source and be happy in the knowledge you have that YOU can do it and she cannot. A good story along this line; but even worse. I have a friend who made two quilts using patriotic fabrics for each of her brothers who were in their 60's or even 70. She mailed them to each as a keepsake( she makes fabulous quilts). She got one back from her SIL (wife of one brother) saying, "These colors don't go in our house so I am sending this back to you." Talk about being hurt. So see there are just some people who just don't get it.