My husband passed away suddenly last October, 2023 and I had always been in charge of finances our whole married life. His job took him away a lot and he always had his check sent to me when he was gone. When he died, there's so much you have to do and finances and budget and SS have to be dealt with. I lost his pension when he died so I had to learn to live on SS only.
My advice to those of you that don't like dealing with finances now may someday find yourselves in a position of panic because you don't know what needs to be paid, etc. Believe me, you need to know what's going on with your finances now.