Joe'smom, it sounds like you have a plan, several actually that have changed over time. To be honest, my production has slowed down too. Don't know why except from time to time I find myself over thinking this or that. I will hear a little voice say, "Just pick a color and get on with it, lady." I do and away I go. Giving away quilt tops is a good solution so you don't get bogged down in UFO's that don't thrill you. If you have folks who will finish them and donate them three cheers for you. You get the fun of creating and can leave the rest to other folk.
Giving can feel real good, too. It sort of clears the decks and the mind. Big breath and pick one you want to finish and move ahead.