I also prefer to make things that are user-friendly. Basically the quilt can survive the three Ps - if laundered promptly and in cool to warm water. (Poop, pee, and puke) It can also survive blood - again, if laundered promptly and in proper temp of water.
I will admit to being "peeved" if someone abuses something I've made. I do mind bleach, burns, and tears.
I have heard about once it's been given, it's no longer yours - yada, yada, yada. I still mind if the item is not taken care of properly.
And it's okay to not being "into" quilts. But if they are not your thing - tell me, and give it back. I hate to throw pearls into acid.