I'm so, so sorry for everything you are going through. My daughter and son-in-law lost everything they had in a fire when my daughter had just 8 weeks to go with her first pregnancy (then the baby arrived two weeks later while they were still homeless). There's so much to work out after a fire and there will be many phases to work through, just as happens after any traumatic experience. It will take a while but you will get through this. Just keep hanging in there and hug your family. I send my hugs and best wishes to you all!