That is the worst of news with the best of results. You all are fine and that is a true gift. Stuff is just that.. you can lose it all and in an amazingly short period of time you find a way to have more stuff. You carry the treasure of the memories inside you always. I know its painful and please know we are all here keeping you in our prayers and praying that the little kitty comes home. Children are resilient and bounce back. Know that just like youthey experience the trauma, the sadness .. the loss and when you are at your whits end and your patience is so thin.. know that at least you have the skills to cope.. and they might need a bit more than you think you have to give. You have it. Its just hard. Starting over is not easy. But after the first few steps.. its not that hard either.