I wash my quilts in a top loader with agitator, delicate cycle, full fill, cool temp with a little detergent. I would suggest throw in a few Shout Color Catchers. Dry in dryer on regular setting. The quilt will be soft and crinkly. If you wash it, then the person won't think they ruined the quilt the first time they wash it because it looks different. Also check it over for loose seams. It happens to us all.