Here, here, cjsews. Accepting from others can be a trap for me too. Learning to graciously say "No, thank you I have enough", is hard. Keep reminding us that this is a way to not increase our stash and keep us organized. Rather than accepting additional stash, maybe suggest that another newer quilter be offered the stash. I have at least 4 UFO's that are not mine but projects that came to me when a good friend had to give up quilting and I accepted a lot of her stash......nearly 5 years ago.