We had a quilt disappear of my grandmother's back in the 70's after she had a stroke plus she was crippled with polio early in life. We had her in a very expensive private nursing home too. My father decided to move her to the county nursing home where she got better care and nothing went missing so you never know which nursing home will be the best these days.
I had to put my brother into a nursing home, he has MS. They left him in a diaper, tee shirt in his bed all day. Gave him a bath 2-3 times a week. He couldn't walk and due to no exercise, his body got worse instead of better with the supposed therapy. I filled out papers to get him into a VA nursing home knowing it would take possibly 2yrs or more to get him in but after 14 months, they had a spot for him. The 1st nursing home knew he was going and they raised his rent by $2,000 the last month claiming it should have been that much all a long. The VA is costing him less than half as much, he's getting much better care, they get him dressed and into his wheelchair with a mechanical lift. The nurses come in often to chat with him. He loves it there. It's still not as close as I'd like it to be so we can come up to see him but he's on the list for a VA nursing home closer to his siblings and friends. He's leaving it up to me to decide if and when they have a room for him. Very hard decision to make when he's very happy where he is now. So far nothing has gone missing from his room there.