Originally Posted by
b.zang
My husband recently passed and I'm realizing not just how much "stuff" he had but how much the two of us had together. It's going to take me at least a year to go through everything and I'm overwhelmed at the sheer enormity of the task. If your friend did not have a loving spouse or child who had the time to sort through a lifetime it's easy (yet sad) to understand how the notebook ended up in a thrift shop. Honestly, I'm impressed the thrift shop had it and that the notebook had not made its way into a recycle bin somewhere. Personal items such as that don't usually sell well.
First, I'm so sorry for your loss of your husband. It's a hard thing to go through. Hugs to you. I might suggest that you spend the money to hire a professional organizer, or estate sales company to help you to through all those things. They will know what is valuable, sentimental, etc. and help you with the physical and emotional task of paring things down. I think that it's money well spent.