I can't express in words how much this post has affected me today. I have reached several milestones in life recently and thought long and hard about some of the issues you have discussed. I actually feel some kinship in your post in the sense that others might feel the same way. I certainly don't think it was your intention to make anyone sad or angry. I have taken steps in my quilting life to address what I need to do about those things I care,about now while I am able. Thank you for this post. I really needed to hear it today.