It might break the ice with the gal, you never know. Even if she doesn't acknowledge you or the baby quilt, you made it as a kind gift and that should at least make you feel good. Maybe the hubby doesn't know how she acts towards you and this would bring it to light also. Also, maybe she thought as a new neighbor, you should break the ice and if you didn't, then she decided not to also. There's all sorts of reasons why this occurs but maybe you need to take the 1st step and a baby quilt would surely do that.