I would make the quilt for them. Our neighbor who shares our long step driveway had a baby 5 years ago and I gave them a simple quilt made from my stash and the label included the name, date of birth, weight & length. I like you debated about it since my disabled husband has done all the militance work on driveway with no help from neighbor other than driving up & down too fast and creating holes & bumps in driveway not to mention rarely helping plow the drive in winter when snow makes it almost impassable. His wife barely even acknowledged us when we did see her (still doesn't) but I decided to make a quilt for them anyway. When I took it over and gave it to them they were overwhelmed and she made the comment after seeing the label that it was the only thing given to them that recorded the birth information she was almost in tears. It made me feel good to know I made them happy. Make the quilt, ask dad for birth information to put on the label and gift it to them. It will make you feel good and we all need these days.