Thanks everyone

I asked him last week when he was plowing my driveway if he knew if the baby was a boy or girl and he said they will know on Feb. 9th and he will tell me. He's excited for this baby because he was married before and his ex had custody of their little girl, who was 4 years old. Unfortunately, she died during a botched medical procedure. My husband died in Oct., 2023 and she died in March, 2024. I took some food over to them when it happened and his wife (girlfriend at the time) never spoke to me or said thank you. She just glared at me and I felt very unwelcome. I will make the quilt and if she decides to use it for the baby or let their dogs lay on it, then that's their choice.