Originally Posted by Stitchnripper

I would make the quilt too. And she lost a child? I don't begin to understand what is going on with her, but I lost my grown son 5 years ago and I am still "not right" if you know what I mean. Maybe she is just withdrawn anyway but she is still suffering. She knows the future is always uncertain. I would write a Very Generous note about wonderful that they have this lovely baby to cherish and adore and hope the quilt provides a place for tummy time, picnics, etc. That way she knows you know it won't go in the crib and maybe she never thought of the other ideas. I make baby quilts for my cousin's grandchildren. The parents don't really care, but, my cousin is thrilled by them and sends me a picture. After that I have no idea what happens to the quilts but my cousin loves them and that I do it. Also make for my BFF grand nieces and nephews for her, not for them, but they turn out to like them too. So, you are really making it for the Dad and he will understand. Let us know how it all turns out.