I have to say that not every quilting encounter is wonderful, life affirming or even encouraging. I was sooo excited when a quilt shop opening in the town nearest to me. I took my first and second set of classes there. But the owner got very snarky if you did not buy your fabric from her store for her classes, would not refund money if a class was cancelled, did not encourage bringing your project in for help--unless you were buying more fabric. Honestly, I don't know how the shop survived as long as it did!!
Thank goodness her 'assistants' were not shaped from the same clay. They were very helpful and encouraging--especially if the owner was absent or otherwise distracted. But for many years, I was a solitary quilter who got more info and encouragement from my sisters via email, than from the local folks (Think 'new' person in an insular small town situation--even after 10 years!).
The turning point came after I joined the local Guild (again, not a 'warm' reception) and decided to brave the weekly Wednesday afternoon Stitch and Share group. THEY became my family--welcoming, helpful, true sisters in stitching. Covid forced us to learn to Zoom and our meetings moved online. Summers saw us gathering in back yards and parks--keeping our distance but sharing our love for our craft. We never stopped supporting each other. Over the years, we have lost some of our group due to various medical problems, and to the need to move for more care. Again, email has become a way for many to stay in touch.
The Quilting Board is my online Stitch and Share group and I am so thankful to all of you. I have been on this board for more than 15 years and appreciate each and every one of you.