Ginny-have fun but I have to agree with RaptureLady: I need some space!! DH used to travel 3-4 times a year for up to 6 weeks at a time. Since he lost his job and started a home business he NEVER leaves LOL!! I volunteered for extra hours at my job to get a break. And excuse me--but are all men slobs?? I mean the guy can't make a cup of coffee without leaving a mess!! (Sorry I digress...)