How disappointing. I am sorry to hear that this has happened to you. I will be getting the border on my first top and then getting it ready to hand quilt and this has been one of my biggest fears. I did a bit of searching and found this information on batting. Maybe this will help in the future with batting:
http://www.quilt.com/FAQS/BattingFAQ.html I hope the suggestions you received on this board to fix your quilt work. Your fabrics and style are so cute. Best of luck.