Thanks! I just looked at it again and it isn't that bad after a few hours. I guess in comparison to how it was before the wash it did look weird, but in comparison to antique quilts it doesn't look that bad. And the only other quilt I ever made was a wallhanging and batiks, so I didn't wash it after quilting.
I do have spray starch, but haven't used it yet. Does it go on when it's damp or afterwards?
I will get my friend to help me square it tomorrow so we can work on both sides.
Thanks for all the great support-you ladies are the best!