Wow, Sharon, that was good information- thank you for writing it all down. I had a lot of dental problems after having my first son. Two of my fillings even fell out when I was pregnant. (Which most likely was because I threw up every couple hours for months and couldn't put a toothbrush in my mouth for about 4 months. Pregnancy was not easy for me.) I had always heard about the calcium thing, though and assumed it was true.
Also, the antidepressant information was useful since I take one and did not realize that it could affect my teeth!
Rachel- I, too, would get a second opinion before getting that many fillings! You are doing the right thing! I hope you can get a good resolution to this issue. Teeth are important.