Maybe you're the one that needs to get over it, gaigai......after all Knot Sew acknowledged and thanked her Angel for the lovely fabric and gift she received. What you said was just as uncalled for. You're not the one being totally forgotten. It is very easy for anyone to push a button and send an email if there is something wrong and they can't continue with this type of swap. It's also common courtesy. Everyone would understand and go on with it. I know that Kwhite never dreamed it would turn out like this......I sure did't and it is not her fault. Lesson learned.....but I'm glad I got involved because I met a very sweet friend and I value that connection very much.
Everyone needs to take a deep breath and relax.