I am so sorry for what you have had to go through. I have a collection of pictures just like yours from a fire we had about 14 years ago when we still lived in New York. It happened in the middle of the night during a blizzard and was caused by ice and snow getting trapped under the eaves and eventually dripping inside the kitchen wall. This caused an electrical short in the wiring and within minutes the fire travelled through the walls and ceilings from room to room. We lost just about everything but fortunately we all got out safely and were surrounded with love and support from hundreds of people in our town including many we did not even know. We had to start over but we managed to get back on our feet. It took time and a lot of faith and patience but we just kept focusing on the positives. It's a tough road but there will be better days ahead. Keep your chin up! My prayers are with you and your family.