I have had two of the don't judge incidents! One: My DD was about 3 and sitting in the grocery cart. I put a package of grapes in the cart and she reached for some and I said Don't eat the grapes..(just then a lady turned the corner and came up behind me) as I was finishing my sentence.... if you eat the grapes we won't pay for them. She gasped and gave me the worst look of outrage I have ever seen. I didn't know what to say or do. I felt bad about that for years!!! The other time A co worker and I were talking about the costume party we were going to and him being a redneck sort of guy, I asked him what he was coming dressed as. We were standing about three feet apart in the hall way and before he answered he turned to cough and turn back and said Cheap Hooker, just as a young lady, daughter of a client, walked between us! My friend about chocked to death trying to find his voice to start explaining. I didn't know what to say or how. It was a mess.