Ditto! Yes, your hormones may have you on edge, but HE didn't do the right thing in being honest and forthright. Now is not the time to blow your cool, though. Explain to him later that YOU wouldn't have come uncooled (or at least, not for long) and you expect honest communication in the future. PLEASE, for your sake, do NOT ignore this! My 1st DH did similar and I wouldn't confront him for the same reasons. Had I let him know earlier on I wouldn't tolerate that behavior I might have nipped a lot of hearteache in the bud.