My DH is really good about picking up after himself, but does not know how to turn on the vacuum, dishwasher, washing machine or iron. Scrubbing a toilet is out of the question. Both my boys do know how, tho. In the grand scheme of things, it could be worse and I'm glad it's not. He makes up for it by being a pretty handy guy and can fix just about anything. Plus he built a machine quilt frame for me a while ago. So no complaints here.