Well, my hubby is my second marriage in paperwork but first in my eyes, he was the best man and will always be the best man for me. He even asked me at teh first wedding if I wanted to go thru with it or wanted to leave before going up the isle, I should have trusted him back then he knew what was right.Let me tell the younger ladies on here don't ever marry because of a baby , it usually doesn't work out and you regret everything. I learned the hard way.My husband raised the girls like they were his own and still does to this day they are now 22 and 24