I meant my hubby, because he visited the nieghbors down stairs from me, one night it was raining really hard and I did not drive, I was 17 and a single mom, I asked him for a ride to my moms, because I was staying over there that night because my son was sick and I did not want him out in the weather. mom watched my son while I worked. when he gave me a ride he asked me to dinner. that was the end of story. I was not looking for anyone to date, I did not have time with working full time and raising a baby on my own. we have been married 28 yrs this Aug. Penny