Gwyn,
I'm so saddened to hear you are now having to deal with this. I'm sure you know we all love you and are here to listen. Please feel free to cry on our shoulders whenever you need to do so. I can't offer you much advice from experience, but I'm available to chat whenever you need. I've learned to be a good listener.
Take good care of yourself and try to find something to smile about every day, even if it's just a flower in bloom, children playing, or a sitcom that just makes you giggle 'til you p**. I find that just sitting with my fabrics sometimes helps. You'll find your way, and we certainly will help.
Love, hugs and blessings to you, my dear.