That is sad about the preacher, but hopefully thru your actions, they will do better the next time. When I was a kid, my dad was a welder and every so often he would lose his job due to the oilfields. My mom didn't work at the time. I remember coming home from school and someone from our church had a truck load full of food for us. I thought it was so generous, especially since we were a family of 5. I never forgot that.