Don, my heart breaks and goes out to you. I have never personally gone through this but, my husband's nephew served in Irag last year for 10-12 months. Just keep strong and know that God will not put more upon us than what we are able to bear. Why not make him a special little quilt block to take with him? It will not take up much space and he can carry it with him wherever he is. When he looks at it or touches it, he will know how much you love and appreciate him. Thank him for serving for our freedom. I will keep him in my prayers and ask God to keep him safe and bring him back home to you and his family safely.
Bootsie