You know you are right about imposing rules on ourselves....I thinj I have done that forever and I am going to change it. I think because I like to sew I alway feel that I should have everything done around the house before I sat down at the machine....that is going to change starting Today. We have our divorced daughter living with us, we have raised two of her children and adopted the other two who are 12 and 15. We are 22 yr old who took time off from college until fall and the other is in college and she is 20. My husband is still recovering from his third bypass surgery this past november and forced retirment due to poor health...I am going to start sewing when I feel like it......