Just wondering how many are raising their grandchildren. We have raised the 22 yr old, his 20 yr old sister since basically since birth. And we adopted the next 2 , two yrs ago. They are 12 and 15, boy is the youngest...He is are sewer and likes soccer he got and received a used sewing machine for this past Christ*mas. Now their mother ( our DD, age 37 moved back in with us). The older two do not even consider her as mother, they use to see her twice a year, until she moved back to our state 2 yrs. ago. How do you deal with things regarding your child, the DD and still be the parent to the older children who don't accept her and the younger ones who accept her?