baubo1234 you know that you have a large group of strong and caring friends here that are holding you close in their minds and hearts as you face this trying time. There is never a good time in ones life to deal with something like this, but at least you have a strong new relationship and don't have to face this on your own. Any time you feel a little shaky, just close your eyes for a moment and picture all our avitars linked together in a circle around you: the kittys, quilts, cute little images, and actual photos. Like the scrappy quilts, we are lots of different kinds of pieces, but joined together, we make a warm and beautiful place to wrap yourself when you need to. Huggggggggs, Linda aka wildyard