at my daughter's wedding we did a donation to AFSP as we had just lost my brother 2 mos. earlier. Everyone thought is was amazing and the owner of the hotel where the reception was took a photo of the display we created.
I'm trying to remember the things we got from subsequent weddings- can't remember- so they must not have been outstanding. That said- go either way....
Oh- I remember DS's- it was a CD of music. Listened to it a few times and put it away. Wasn't my type of music.