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Prism99 09-11-2011 09:06 AM

Stumbled and fell while hiking with my dh on Friday. Broke my glasses, skinned my hands, and opened a gash in one eyebrow. I was quite a sight hiking back to the car! Now sport 5 stitches in my eyebrow and a swollen black eye.

Anyone know how long it takes for the swelling to go down? I actually don't mind the black eye as much as I do the swelling that interferes with vision. Plus I need to get in for a vision exam before getting the new eyeglasses.

Edit: Should add that everyone at the ER was great! I looked really bad walking in, so the ER doc came running out for a closer look, asking what happened. I told her I fell while hiking, and it made me feel old and stupid. She retorted "Well, at least you can still *feel* old and stupid!" :-D Of course, she looked like a well-preserved 30-year-old. Plus, she's a doctor! :lol: :lol: :lol:

sewgull 09-11-2011 09:08 AM

Poor little thing, I hope you feel better soon. Milk the bruises and stitches as long as you can.

Kathios 09-11-2011 09:09 AM

Oh, that sounds painful! I'm sure the swelling will be down in a day or two. Perhaps you should put an ice pack on the area for a few minutes. If you don't have an ice pack, use a small package of frozen veggies wrapped in a towel. Get better soon!

PegD 09-11-2011 09:09 AM

I'd make you tea if we lived closer. Sorry to hear of your accident. Hope it feels better soon.

luv-e 09-11-2011 09:12 AM

Speedy Recovery {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

BrendaY 09-11-2011 09:14 AM

Uh oh... now some people will think your husband did it to you.. Happened to me once... and they simply would not believe the truth of it.. I ran into a door!

Sadiemae 09-11-2011 09:18 AM

Your DH can fix the tea, and I will give you all of the sympathy and empathy that you need.

MZStitch 09-11-2011 09:46 AM

See, that's why I avoid exercise and stay at home behind my sewing machine on weekends! lol. Invest in a few of those emergency ice packs that you can keep in your backpack. The kind you just punch and they turn cold immediately. The swelling would have been less if you had the ice right away. I hope it will reduce quickly, pamper yourself for a few days!

scraphq 09-11-2011 10:00 AM

Making a cup of nice English tea for you. Don't be surprised when the black and blue starts creeping down on your face. Just one of those things with a bad bruise. Hope you heal quickly.

blueangel 09-11-2011 10:27 AM

Wishing you a speedy recovery

sueisallaboutquilts 09-11-2011 10:27 AM

Oh no!! Do the ice, on 20 minutes, off for a couple of hours or as needed.
HUGS!!
Sue

Prism99 09-11-2011 11:07 AM

Is it too late to use ice? I did use ice Friday nite, but slacked off on Saturday (even though doctor said to continue on Saturday). I'm thinking now that it's been 36 hours or so, ice won't help anymore.....

Prism99 09-11-2011 11:09 AM


Originally Posted by sewgull
Milk the bruises and stitches as long as you can.

I'm working on that! 8-)

Julie in NM 09-11-2011 11:40 AM

Had cancer surgery on my face a couple years ago.

When the area doesn't hurt, start massaging the discolored area. Will help a little. To be honest, I looked like I'd been a bar brawl for about a month...but that was surgery and deep tissue aggravation. you will be ok.

Oh...go to Merle Norman...they have an undercover makeup that is GREEN that will off set any redness. They can do a demo so you can see how it works. It's so cool!

Sorry about your accident. I know it must just tick you off.

aneternalpoet 09-11-2011 05:38 PM

oh my goodness... black eye, stitches, scrapes.. I am thinking you need some chocolate, lol.. not that I know that helps, because I am one of a million probably who doesnt like chocolate.. I really dont. But I would send you a box full just for the sympathy pains you must have .. I am sorry you got hurt.. :cry:

aneternalpoet 09-11-2011 05:38 PM

oh my goodness... black eye, stitches, scrapes.. I am thinking you need some chocolate, lol.. not that I know that helps, because I am one of a million probably who doesnt like chocolate.. I really dont. But I would send you a box full just for the sympathy pains you must have .. I am sorry you got hurt.. :cry:

Cyn 09-11-2011 05:39 PM

Sounds to me like Retail Therapy might help the situation! HUGS

serenitybygrace 09-11-2011 05:47 PM

I am so sorry you fell. That isn't pleasant to have bruises and scrapes and even worse a cut that needed stitches.. Sending (((HUGS))).

oldswimmer 09-11-2011 05:57 PM

Sorry to hear of your accident. Wishing you a speedy recovery ! The bruising will take a while to go away, hang in there!

Prism99 09-11-2011 06:40 PM

Hmmm.... Sipping a little wine. I'd go for the chocolate big time, but it gives me a headache. Actually, wine gives me a headache too but it's easier for me to control intake and has a little more bang for the risk!

JoanneS 09-11-2011 07:38 PM

Sorry to tell you this - but your eye may take 2 weeks to clear up. When I fell down stairs and landed on my face (didn't break anything, but boyohboy did I have 2 black eyes, a hugely swollen forehead AND a black nose), it took 2 WEEKS for the black to go away. It slid down my face a bit every day as it faded. I looked like an abused wife. I was questioned several times in the ER by several different people - I guess to make sure I gave the same answers to be sure I hadn't been beaten up! Nope - fell down the stairs!

quilt-fanatic 09-12-2011 01:28 AM

I sympathize with the old and stupid remark (after falling last Nov and shattering wrist). Aren't you glad there are so many 'doctors' here on the quilt board!! Keep ice on it until swelling goes down and may take several days.

Yooper32 09-12-2011 04:36 AM

My sympathies for your hurts. Hope the swelling goes down quickly as impaired vision is so irritating.

K.P. 09-12-2011 05:21 AM

You can get something called Arnicare cream at the drug store, I think WalMart and Walgreen's may both have it, not sure, my sister-ini-law gave it to me, made from the Arnica Montana plant, a homeopathic type medicine; the doctor suggested it to my sister-in-law after her eye-lift to lessen the bruising, worked great; granddaughters use it for bruises too, they play volleyball and sometime hit the floor. It's sold for pain relief, muscle aches, stiffness and brusing, give it a try...

drw1mjw2 09-12-2011 05:41 AM

Take the used tea bag, let it cool and then put on the swollen eye. Sorry it happened. I fell off the beach in Florida years ago and had to go to the hospital. That's right, fell off the beach. It was rocky and I slipped, the ER staff got a laugh out of that one. No one falls off a beach!

mhollifiel 09-12-2011 06:10 AM

Hope this makes you feel better. New Year's Eve in 2004, DH and I were walking through the light display at James Island when I fell and pretty much did the same thing. I am blind w/o my glasses which were destroyed. I hadn't had a drop of drink in months, maybe years but, of course, everyone assumed I had had a NYE bender! Without my glasses for a couple of days and with my new shiner, it was hard to dispute!

Wanabee Quiltin 09-12-2011 06:35 AM

I was in an accident on vacation. My fault entirely, did not put my seat belt on thinking I was so far back in the van, I would be safe. Wrong !! I flew out of my seat and gashed my head on the roof and then my mouth hit the steel support of the seat in front of me. Broke a bone or two in my nose and my mouth swelled and then the whole area turned black. Did not hurt as bad as it looked and it looked awful. Hang in there and you will be okay sooner than you think.

JoyjoyMarie 09-12-2011 06:41 AM

Better to be bruised while hiking, than soft like a pillow from couch potatoing! Sending good thoughts for a speedy recovery! and MORE hiking!

(I fell off my bike last year and made a bruise on my leg that took almost a year to go away! Whew! Hope your's disappears faster than mine!)

grannypat7925 09-12-2011 06:55 AM

Ice for the first 48 hrs. and then gentle moist heat! I walked off a curb Apr. 1 and did about the same thing. Hit my face and head so hard that I didn't feel the hit on my leg. Developed a large hematoma that took 4 mos. to heal. My face and head were better long before. I move a little slower these days and pay a little more attention. Multitasking just isn't my game anymore. I was trying to unlock the car with my key fob thingy and kept on walking, forgetting there was a curb to step down. Lesson learned.

GlitzyMe 09-12-2011 07:00 AM

Ouch......sorry you're hurting. Hope you are pampered and feel better soon.

Amythyst02 09-12-2011 07:01 AM


Originally Posted by aneternalpoet
oh my goodness... black eye, stitches, scrapes.. I am thinking you need some chocolate, lol.. not that I know that helps, because I am one of a million probably who doesnt like chocolate.. I really dont. But I would send you a box full just for the sympathy pains you must have .. I am sorry you got hurt.. :cry:

Oh this certainly calls for a "chocolate fix" !!! As for those that do not like chocolate I have a grandson that absolutely does not like chocolate. We even tried to trick him one year with white chocolate, and he looks me right in the eye, and says: Grandma you know I do not like chocolate!! I just do not understand, how he can not, his mother and I both are chocolate LOVERS.... lol

mim 09-12-2011 07:12 AM

The way gravity works -- it will sort of slide down as it goes away -- Give it a week -- I'm so sorry the hike ended badly -- This is a lovely time of year for a hike. I'm sure your DH feels terrible for you

Mim

Kathy T. 09-12-2011 07:26 AM

I'll second the suggestion by K.P. that you get Arnicare or something like it. We get Arnica gel from GNC (or any other health stores) and it works great to relieve the bruising (and it smells good, too). My grandmother used to mix arnica and witch hazel, but I never knew the right proportions so we get the gel. And tea and cinnamon toast is the best for your spirits. Accidents happen - stay active anyway! <big hug and lots of pity coming your way>

Rann 09-12-2011 07:31 AM

My kids call me FLM for flying leap mama. Every time we go camping I go splat.

auniqueview 09-12-2011 08:04 AM

You're not old and stupid. You have to do better than falling on a hiking trail. For instance, try doing a full face plant TWICE by tripping up a three inch step in your own house, ....one you have lived in for ten years. Even the dogs laughed at me.

If someone says something about the bruises, just tell them they should see the other guy.

leiladylei54 09-12-2011 08:23 AM

Ohhh, svs for your mishap....thank goodness the injuries are only temporary and not of the permanent variety. Take care!!!

Prism99 09-12-2011 09:04 AM

Thanks, everyone. I ordered some Arnica gel from Amazon and will try it out.

My biggest problem right now is that I broke my regular glasses and am "making do" with my mid-range computer glasses. This is fine as long as I am on the computer, but I feel slightly nauseated all the time and I'm sure it's the change in vision.

Have an appointment in 2 weeks for a new eye exam. My glasses cost so much, I want to make sure they have a current prescription! So, I think it's nausea city for about a month until I get new glasses. At least my dd said she'd go with me to pick out nice frames! And, this time I'm going to order a spare pair.

leiladylei54 09-12-2011 10:29 AM

Glad you thought of a spare pair...hubby NEVER did that and we had to pay umpteen bucks for a one hour service to get a pair made. We kept forgetting to get the spare pair, gone through this one hour service thing about three times until we FINALLY learned to order the spare pair.

jojosnana 09-12-2011 11:09 AM

My grandaughter had an accident. Her bike hit something sticking out of the sidewalk and she went flying. A black eye, cuts and scratches everywhere from sliding on the cement. She used the frozen bag of peas for a few days. She still has the bruise but it gets less purple each day. Poor thing - put her bike in the corner of the garage. I don't think she will be riding that for a while.

Jaynie 09-12-2011 12:08 PM


Originally Posted by aneternalpoet
oh my goodness... black eye, stitches, scrapes.. I am thinking you need some chocolate, lol.. not that I know that helps, because I am one of a million probably who doesnt like chocolate.. I really dont. But I would send you a box full just for the sympathy pains you must have .. I am sorry you got hurt.. :cry:

I don't like chocolate either...Mom always said something must be wrong with me...LOL. But anyway, take it easy, a cold pack might help with the swelling. Hope you recover soon.


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