My dh and I worked together for 5 years at the same company. i recently was let go, he still works there. they are having a pitchin at work. He had his friends wife make him things to take to work. I'm so hurt. He could have at least hid it from me.

Well, if he didn't hide it from you then it obviously didn't mean that much to him. You know men, mostly straight to the point.
Ask what YOU can do for him, might get a good suggestion.
Take him his lunch if he doesn't work that far away.

A pitchin? You mean, where everyone brings food to share?

I guess I am dumb. I have no idea what a pitchin is...

I wouldnt fix him a sandwich right now.

yes? what is a pitchin?

It's like a potluck I think. Where everyone brings a covered dish? Maybe he didn't want you to go to the trouble of making something when you wouldn't be partaking?

Ditto ..

All I have is time on my hands right now, I dont understand why he's having someone else fix him something to take to work. They all know me, I've cooked for them before, had requests for certain dishes. I'm a good cook, more than a good cook, I've been told I should open a resturaunt. Maybe I'm just being overly sensitive. I want so bad to go out and spit in her platter, to take his christmas present back and give him a lump of poo. I just mailed a package of goodies to one of his buddies in PA, I hope he dont gag on what I've made. One of his buddies thats down the road asked if he could be on my dessert of the month club list. He loves my cooking. I just dont understand.

Pitch in---everyone brings one food dish and then every shares and eats.