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Neesie 08-22-2013 11:06 AM

Positive Feedback
 
When we get lousy service from a company or company's employee, most of us don't hesitate complain. However, how many of us think to write a note of praise, about the GOOD service? Way too often, we just take it for granted and say nothing.

If you're happy with the way a store's employee has gone out of his/her way to help you, please take a minute to contact the store's main office (online) and write a quick note of praise, for that person (make sure you give the person's name and the location of the store). That note will most likely be forwarded to the appropriate store's manager and the helpful employee. It's so easy, to brighten up a person's day! :)

Chasing Hawk 08-22-2013 11:10 AM

We do this all the time. We did this recently and received a $25.00 gift card.

quiltstringz 08-22-2013 12:07 PM

I agree - I do try to do that as often as I can.

omacookie 08-22-2013 12:15 PM

Thank you for the tip. I have 30 plus years retail and thank goodness I received more compliments then complaints. Hugs

Elise1 08-22-2013 01:38 PM

Target has post cards by the register to compliment an employee. I told my favorite cashier that I filled out a card about her. She said they are used in their reviews and may contribute to a raise. You can imagine, I get even better service from her now.

Every single one of us likes a compliment. It's a great way to make someones day. :thumbup:

Stitchnripper 08-22-2013 01:48 PM

I absolutely do this on a regular basis. Most recently with an airline gate agent at our local airport who went above and beyond for me.

Neesie 08-22-2013 02:22 PM

It's a shame there isn't some way, to file complaints against some of our fellow-customers. At Hobby Lobby's fabric counter, there's a bell. One "ding" is all it takes. "Dinging" that bell ten or twelve times will not turn the saleslady into a magical being, who can instantly stop what she's doing (which is often helping another customer, in another department) and suddenly appear at the counter. I usually tell that person, the saleslady is tending more than one department and will appear as soon as she can . . . but I usually just get a blank stare, in return. :shock: Those rude customers are soooo obviously not quilters! ;)

nanacc 08-22-2013 10:42 PM

I have even apologized to a checker for rude person ahead of me in line! I have stopped the manager in Wally a few times to let him know how much I appreciated the service of a checker! We all need some encouragement and praise once in a while. It seems like some people believe that if you work for a living, you are beneath them. I have all the respect in the world for those people who work in the public and are able to take the hard work and the abuse some dish out! If we could all have a little more respect for others, it would be a better world!

citruscountyquilter 08-23-2013 04:29 AM

I have asked to speak to the store manager numerous times about the wonderful service one of their employees gave me. It is always interesting to watch their body language change as they brace themselves for what they think is going to be a negative tirade which turns out to be a positive happy moment. Everyone needs some positive moments.

Kimcatlou 08-23-2013 05:25 AM


Originally Posted by Neesie (Post 6249363)
When we get lousy service from a company or company's employee, most of us don't hesitate complain. However, how many of us think to write a note of praise, about the GOOD service? Way too often, we just take it for granted and say nothing.

If you're happy with the way a store's employee has gone out of his/her way to help you, please take a minute to contact the store's main office (online) and write a quick note of praise, for that person (make sure you give the person's name and the location of the store). That note will most likely be forwarded to the appropriate store's manager and the helpful employee. It's so easy, to brighten up a person's day! :)

As a retired teacher, My 2 cents worth is ---Please tell teachers when you see them doing a good job, especially for your child! Parent complaints are too frequent; compliments too seldom!

mighty 08-23-2013 05:52 AM

I so agree there are just not enough atta boys!!!!

Neesie 08-23-2013 06:03 AM


Originally Posted by Kimcatlou (Post 6250662)
As a retired teacher, My 2 cents worth is ---Please tell teachers when you see them doing a good job, especially for your child! Parent complaints are too frequent; compliments too seldom!

As the mother of a teacher (my DD), I second this! :thumbup:

Snooze2978 08-23-2013 06:16 AM

Some of the restaurants such as Red Lobster and Olive Garden have added a survey website on your receipt where you can go there to express your thoughts about the service. My sister and I used to make a road trip into the "BIG CITY" once a month and always finish it off at Red Lobster. We would try to get a table with our favorite waiter when we could as he always made us feel at home. We in turn would post a good review online concerning the service we received from him. Before he became our favorite waiter though, our reviews were good. Our next visit we couldn't get seated in his area but he made a point of coming over to us and thanking us for the kind words so yes, they do see what we put out there. It really made a nice finish for our trip to the "BIG CITY" that day........:-)

willferg 08-23-2013 06:47 AM


Originally Posted by citruscountyquilter (Post 6250552)
I have asked to speak to the store manager numerous times about the wonderful service one of their employees gave me. It is always interesting to watch their body language change as they brace themselves for what they think is going to be a negative tirade which turns out to be a positive happy moment.

I've experienced that, too, and it always makes me feel good to be able to contribute to that experience!

misseva 08-23-2013 07:18 AM

I just had a really good experience with Keepsake Quilting. Placed an order from an e-mail then turned around and remembered I needed something from latest catalog. Called to add to my order but too late sooooo - they just shipped the second item and didn't charge me any shipping. I did thank them and also commented on how pleased I was with their Block of the Month I had ordered previously.

Rose_P 08-23-2013 07:26 AM

Good point! Thanks for starting this thread, Neesie.

Caswews 08-23-2013 08:18 AM

We all as humans thrive on compliments ! It takes 100 positive to overcome 1 negative in the overall scheme.
I used to work in Wally years ago in the Fabric Departmentl; and it goes both ways with customers and co-workers.

michelleoc 08-23-2013 08:48 AM

I always like to commend people when they've done a good job. Sadly, managers always seem surprised when I want to talk to them about something good!

FroggyinTexas 08-23-2013 08:48 AM

This is absolutely true. Parents do not seem to know that teachers are dealing every day not only with their wonderful child, but also with one who has already been in jail, is on medication to keep him or her calm, has an abusive parent, has just experienced the loss of a parent, has a parent who is in jail or is about to go there, as well as children who are mentally ill. And that's just the tip of the iceberg. I, too, am a retired teacher and the parent and mother-in-law of teachers who are coping not only with students who have problems, but also with "evaluators" who come randomly into their classrooms to "evaluate" what they are doing. Parents, please find time to say "thank you" to the teacher and write a note commending him or her to the school's adminstrator. froggyintexas


Originally Posted by Kimcatlou (Post 6250662)
As a retired teacher, My 2 cents worth is ---Please tell teachers when you see them doing a good job, especially for your child! Parent complaints are too frequent; compliments too seldom!


Gabrielle's Mimi 08-23-2013 05:01 PM

My sister who is a pediatric nurse in the Boston area told me she just received roses from a family because she spent time calming and educating a scared child who needed shots. She was thrilled that the family appreciated her efforts and took the time to convey their thanks. Such a lovely thing to do!

Mimiqwerty 08-23-2013 08:36 PM


Originally Posted by Kimcatlou (Post 6250662)
As a retired teacher, My 2 cents worth is ---Please tell teachers when you see them doing a good job, especially for your child! Parent complaints are too frequent; compliments too seldom!

As a still-working teacher, Kimcatlou has said it all. Thank you.

ctrysass2012 08-23-2013 09:09 PM

I agree with all of the above. We do need to commend the good service we receive. But also, think about the people
"behind the scene". I have worked as a private housekeeper for 8 yrs. & as a hotel housekeeper. I have recieved
thank you's from my private clients, always appreciated. But from the hotel guests? Not very often. A word to
Management is also appreciated. A note also goes into our file. Can you tell there was a crazy party in your room the
night before? It's all because of the housekeeper. She/he is the 1 that cleaned & made it a welcome place to stop after a long drive. Sorry for the rant but when you have cleaned up after people that just don't care & are proud of
your work a "Thank you" goes a long way.

celwood 08-24-2013 04:40 AM

Re:Positive feedback
 
A couple of years ago my husband and I were in a bad accident at 6:30AM. A passing motorist stopped to help us out. He stayed there until the police came and ambulance came. He told us that he was a college student working the night shift and he had just gotten off work. My husband and I were very impressed with this young man and wrote a letter to his company's HQ. The company wrote us back and told us how pleased they were that his employee had helped us and that they had given him a bonus of $500.

sewnsewer2 08-24-2013 05:12 AM

I always talk to the manager and let them know how pleasant the worker was!

alwayslearning 08-24-2013 07:58 AM

One time I was on a flight (major airline) that stopped in St. Louis for a layover and then proceed to San Diego. A group of about 15 - 20 young men on their way to boot camp at the naval station in San Diego joined the flight. They stunk (it was summer), rowdy, ill-behaved, lighting up on board on the ground, etc. It was an absolute disaster. The cabin crew were real pros. They rearranged (with everyone's approval) the cabin so the youngsters were in the back with one crew member taking of them and the rest free to treat the rest of us normally. Wonderful.
I wrote complementing the crew for a wonderful job. Unfortunately, I got a CYA letter saying they had to carry recruits. I did take the time to write again because that crew saved what could have been several hours of misery into a normal flight. How sad that they got so few complimentary letters that they did not recognize it for what it was.

mjhaess 08-24-2013 05:47 PM

Good idea....I will try to be more mindful of this. Thanks..

Mousie 08-25-2013 02:43 PM


Originally Posted by Neesie (Post 6249363)
When we get lousy service from a company or company's employee, most of us don't hesitate complain. However, how many of us think to write a note of praise, about the GOOD service? Way too often, we just take it for granted and say nothing.

If you're happy with the way a store's employee has gone out of his/her way to help you, please take a minute to contact the store's main office (online) and write a quick note of praise, for that person (make sure you give the person's name and the location of the store). That note will most likely be forwarded to the appropriate store's manager and the helpful employee. It's so easy, to brighten up a person's day! :)

I've done this after a company took 4 months to straighten out my credit card. I got a very personable and very helpful employee that was very patient and thorough with me. I was sooo pleased with him. The funny thing was I asked for his supervisor and was praising him to the very guy that has been a bonehead to me during a different call. He had read a self help book about assertive techniques and was using them to his own advantage. (I had read the same book!) I thought it was delicious karma that he had to hear about both sides of the coin and couldn't say anything :D


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