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nativetexan 04-18-2012 09:17 AM

remember kitty litter boxes need to be cleaned daily if possible. no more than two days apart though. you don't want kitty going elsewhere. good luck

auniqueview 04-18-2012 10:11 AM

ASK him first if he would like a cat, don't spring one on him. That very often backfires, even if done in love.

sandybeach 04-18-2012 03:07 PM

I would beware of declawed cats. The declawing is very painful and debilitating for them and they often times have physical and mental issues with it. Neither of my cats scratch where they are not supposed to because I have scratching posts (ones with large, sturdy bases) throughout the house. After the kitten stage, most cats will not scratch a person unless you are playing with them that way.

Elise1 04-18-2012 05:09 PM

I would also ask him first and involve him in the process. Ask his opinion, find out his preferences in a cat and include him in all discussions.

Nan C 04-18-2012 05:50 PM

Oh for sure......it will really help him and also the cat. How wonderful that you thought of that for your Dad. Hugs and blessings.

Prism99 04-18-2012 06:39 PM

I agree that declawing is not a good idea. If you simply keep the cat's claws trimmed, that should be adequate. It's more important to choose the right cat. Sometimes the cat's history is known. If this is the case, a cat who has been the only pet of an elderly person is a good candidate, as he/she is used to a quiet household and keeping an older person company.

TanyaL 04-18-2012 08:09 PM

Ask if he wants a cat. A cat that he doesn't want is a pest.

AshleyR 04-19-2012 02:20 AM

I know this doesn't help you much, but I have a friend who works at a vet's office. They are looking for a home for a declawed neutered male. He is 100% litter trained, etc, etc, etc, and they cannot find a home for him. I guess my point is, look around for a declawed cat before you have that procedure done to a cat with claws. We have 4 indoor cats and I understand why someone would want a declawed cat!

Up North 04-19-2012 03:33 AM

I would not willingly have a cat declawed but I know they are out there already done. And it would be a rescue cat for sure.

glorcour 04-19-2012 04:32 AM

A pretty bird (parakeet or budgie) would sing and give lots of company and they are fairly low maintenance. Some bird seed, some water and acage and you are good to go.


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