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taiboo 01-25-2013 11:43 AM

Can anyone relate????
 
I saw a quilt at a shop that i loved, so i bought fabrics that i love and came home....issue is, it is all free style cutting, there is no pattern...the pieces go in all different directions, different shapes...etc.

I desperately want to do this, i usually make my own patterns, but this particular style has no real pattern...its more of a fly by the seat of your pants kind of thing...cut here...cut there...make it all fit together.

It's exciting to have this challange ahead of me, but i never realized how much i think inside the box... my husband is like...just start cutting and see where you wind up...I don't know if i have this in me to do it.

Can anyone relate? How do you get past the fear of messing up lol???

Thanks
Kimberly

Chasing Hawk 01-25-2013 11:50 AM

I had this issue last night. I am working on a Take 5 quilt for one of our granddaughters. The pattern instructions say to turn each one a certain amount of times to make it look "scrapy". I started to go bonkers, because all my working career it all had to line up. I still can't get the idea of letting it go with the flow as they say when it comes to my quilts.
I have to remember...Perfection is NOT an option, nothing is to be Perfect it's disrespectful to Wakan Tanka.

Finally after several breaks, a dinner of leftover Tuna casserole, I finally got it the way I want it.
But no peeks until I am done with the other 2 and Curtis Ray's turtle quilt.

NJ Quilter 01-25-2013 11:53 AM

You are much braver than I would be! I'm a pattern girl myself. I'd be beside myself having bought all that fabric and finding there was no 'pattern' to follow!

taiboo 01-25-2013 11:55 AM

i knew when i was picking out all my fabric that there was no pattern... I really thought i would have no issues with it...now here the fabric sits on my cutting table and i'm nervous, didn't really think it would be hard for me lol

GingerK 01-25-2013 11:59 AM

Whenever I am afraid of a 'pattern' or technique, I go to my scrap bag, pull out the crappiest pieces I can find, and make a practice block. Why not try that as a gentle baby step into the world of 'letting go'.

erstan947 01-25-2013 12:23 PM

This is not brain surgery......it is just fabric! GingerK has great advice....do a practice block or quilt then just jump in~don't over think it:) We want to see how you progress. Quilting is suppose to be FUN!!

auntpiggylpn 01-25-2013 12:42 PM


Originally Posted by NJ Quilter (Post 5812962)
You are much braver than I would be! I'm a pattern girl myself. I'd be beside myself having bought all that fabric and finding there was no 'pattern' to follow!

This is why I can't do the "paper bag" technique when I do a scrappy quilt - I just can't relinquish that control!!!

taiboo 01-25-2013 12:50 PM

I will def be trying it this way...thank you for the great advice


Originally Posted by GingerK (Post 5812975)
Whenever I am afraid of a 'pattern' or technique, I go to my scrap bag, pull out the crappiest pieces I can find, and make a practice block. Why not try that as a gentle baby step into the world of 'letting go'.


MissSongbird 01-25-2013 12:55 PM

I feel like that type of person. I like measurement and some sort of direction when I quilt. That thought of just sticking stuff together worries me, but quilts like this tend to be so beautiful. My sister can through together a quilt with random pieces and it ends up looking far more technical than it actually was.

I say go for it! I still haven't found the guts yet to do it myself. haha

Jan in VA 01-25-2013 01:28 PM

Making a practice block of fabrics you can bear to use up will help.

Also, sit down and think your way through this hang up.
1. What will happen if you use the fabric you bought?
2. If you worry that you'll " make a mistake," what is the worst that will happen?
3. And if that worst happens, what is the worst that will happen then?
4. What will you feel if you totally hate what you've done? How can you get rid of that feeling?
5. What is the worst that can happen if you feel bad? And after that, what will be the worst?

Walk yourself thru this "what is the worst...." process. Decide how much you can live with and still be safe, whole, healthy, happy, and a good person. Usually this little exercise will help you see that the worry and hesitation is way out of bounds of the reality of the outcome. So you will have spent some money in a way that wasn't (choose your adjective.... wise/smart/responsible/unselfish...) Using this, you likely can come to a "so what?!" place and go for it!

Good luck,
Jan in VA

sewmary 01-25-2013 02:38 PM

Listen to Jan!

Also, when you started this thread you said you were excited! Then you overthought it!

Grab that excitement back and make that gorgeous quilt.

Sounds like something I would like to do.

KwiltyKahy 01-25-2013 02:54 PM

Sounds like you can't mess it up. If it is not exactly the way you thought it would be it becomes a "design element', That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

barri1 01-25-2013 03:01 PM

Just do it. When I make scrap quilts, I sew pieces together, and it all comes together. It can be fun, and a major challenge to think outside the box. I have never made a quilt from a pattern I haven't designed..

LivelyLady 01-25-2013 03:18 PM


Originally Posted by NJ Quilter (Post 5812962)
You are much braver than I would be! I'm a pattern girl myself. I'd be beside myself having bought all that fabric and finding there was no 'pattern' to follow!

That's me, too. I think I am so much inside the box that I'll always be a traditionalist quilter.

sewingsuz 01-25-2013 03:31 PM

I can't wait to see the finished quilt. Tiaboo and chasing hawk

Toni C 01-25-2013 03:33 PM

I have trouble with wonky blocks (it messes with my sense of order) Figured I would have trouble with Twisters but ended up loving it.I'm pretty sure this would be to much for me. Good luck and would love pics

amandasgramma 01-25-2013 03:38 PM

This is where design walls come in handy ---- near your sewing machine! What pattern did you buy???? I'm so curious!

Chasing Hawk -- I've got a Take 5 on my machine now..........you can't hardly make a mistake...just use the design board or lay it on the floor. You can switch those blocks around.

ube quilting 01-25-2013 04:25 PM

Go for it and see where it takes you not where you take it!
have fun and post some of your progress as you go. This sounds exciting.
peace

ube quilting 01-25-2013 04:30 PM


Originally Posted by Chasing Hawk (Post 5812954)
I had this issue last night. I am working on a Take 5 quilt for one of our granddaughters. The pattern instructions say to turn each one a certain amount of times to make it look "scrapy". I started to go bonkers, because all my working career it all had to line up. I still can't get the idea of letting it go with the flow as they say when it comes to my quilts.
I have to remember...Perfection is NOT an option, nothing is to be Perfect it's disrespectful to Wakan Tanka.

Finally after several breaks, a dinner of leftover Tuna casserole, I finally got it the way I want it.
But no peeks until I am done with the other 2 and Curtis Ray's turtle quilt.

@ post #2 Chasing Hawk: Please, info about Wakan Tanka?

TanyaL 01-25-2013 08:49 PM

If it is the sewing that is bothering you then do as suggested and make a practice block from not liked scrap fabric. If however, you aren't sure of the design graphics in this new style quilt, then put the design together from construction paper. That's a lot quicker and easier than the sewing. You can glue the colored construction paper to a newspaper backing and make a paper quilt very quickly.

rush88888 01-26-2013 03:35 AM

"worse-case scenario" is also how i try to think in order to get myself to cut up the lovely fabric i have.

about getting started...how 'bout spending a little more time with the inspiration quilt. look at it. touch it. talk about it with the store staff. perhaps that might put some of your fears to rest. best-case scenario is that the store will still have the fabric if you feel you have made a "mistake" and have to purchase more.

taiboo 01-26-2013 05:13 AM

There is no pattern to this quilt, i started working on it last night, i have two blocks done, I will post pictures of them after i charge my camera lol

bunniequilter 01-26-2013 06:08 AM

It can be hard letting go of what is familiar to us, there is a certain amount of comfort in what we know. Maybe start letting go with something a little less intimidating, like practice blocks and work your way to the bigger projects.

mighty 01-26-2013 08:12 AM


Originally Posted by GingerK (Post 5812975)
Whenever I am afraid of a 'pattern' or technique, I go to my scrap bag, pull out the crappiest pieces I can find, and make a practice block. Why not try that as a gentle baby step into the world of 'letting go'.

I agree this will get you going!!!!

taiboo 01-26-2013 03:04 PM

Some pics of what i have done so far
 
2 Attachment(s)
This is what i was talking about when making this quilt. I must admit, it is getting easier as we go along. lol, on to block 6 lol

Vicki W 01-26-2013 03:22 PM

It is going to be a cute quilt, I love the colors that you chose.

Mdaniels 01-26-2013 05:42 PM

I have been designing as I go with my quilts. I have to remind myself this fun and I let the colors and fabric take charge. I learn with everything I do. If I tried to stick to a pattern, I'd put too much pressure on myself to be perfect. I am having a blast.

cutting the fabric the first time is the hardest with a new project. Once I get that done, I can roll along. Have fun and don't worry about making something bad. Its all good.

BellaBoo 01-26-2013 07:08 PM

No pattern then no mess ups to worry about.

jmoore 01-27-2013 03:56 AM

Looks great so far... I'm sure you will have fun with it.

I did a Turning Twenty for a Christmas gift and in July I had it all up on my design wall just the way I wanted it... since I live in two houses during the summer months, I didn't get back to my project for a few weeks.... only to discover 99% of it had fallen to the floor... I made myself crazy trying to put it back the way I had inially organized it... so I know what you mean.

jeaninmaine 01-27-2013 05:22 AM

Great color combination. I like how it's looking so far. Please continue adding pictures, I'm dying to see how the finished quilt looks.

meanmom 01-27-2013 06:09 AM

OOOOOO I like that. Yes it is hard to let go. I did the mystery train quilt and had a hard time making myself do the paper bag method. My eyeballs almost burned at some of the colors I was sewing together but in the end it looked good. I am not an organized person in the rest of my life but I feel like my quilts have to have order.
What patterrn? method is that??? Is there a tutorial or something to get me started Looks like a great way for me to use up my scraps. That is kinda what I have been imagining to do with my scraps.

brenwalt 01-27-2013 07:18 AM

Middle of the Road Approach
 
Try a middle of the road approach. I ran into this situation and am using a pattern to make a huge center block and for the sashing / borders, I look through books to get ideas and go from there. The end result is original but yet I have guidlines with which to work. Kind of like in dressmaking and costume making where features from several patterns are used. Good luck and most of all: Have Fun !!

bibi 01-27-2013 08:12 AM

As your completed blocks indicate this will be one gorgeous quilt. Enjoy the journey. Looking forward to see both completed quilts, yours and Chasing Hawk"s.

JudeWill 01-27-2013 08:38 AM


Originally Posted by erstan947 (Post 5813028)
This is not brain surgery......it is just fabric! GingerK has great advice....do a practice block or quilt then just jump in~don't over think it:) We want to see how you progress. Quilting is suppose to be FUN!!

I really relate to this. I tend to be such a perfectionist when I sew, that I find myself continually telling myself, "You're not doing brain surgery." It helps.

JudeWill 01-27-2013 08:39 AM


Originally Posted by Jan in VA (Post 5813129)
Making a practice block of fabrics you can bear to use up will help.

Also, sit down and think your way through this hang up.
1. What will happen if you use the fabric you bought?
2. If you worry that you'll " make a mistake," what is the worst that will happen?
3. And if that worst happens, what is the worst that will happen then?
4. What will you feel if you totally hate what you've done? How can you get rid of that feeling?
5. What is the worst that can happen if you feel bad? And after that, what will be the worst?

Walk yourself thru this "what is the worst...." process. Decide how much you can live with and still be safe, whole, healthy, happy, and a good person. Usually this little exercise will help you see that the worry and hesitation is way out of bounds of the reality of the outcome. So you will have spent some money in a way that wasn't (choose your adjective.... wise/smart/responsible/unselfish...) Using this, you likely can come to a "so what?!" place and go for it!

Good luck,
Jan in VA

Great advice, Jan! I will try to remember that. It could be applied to a lot of things.

catmcclure 01-27-2013 08:53 AM


Originally Posted by NJ Quilter (Post 5812962)
You are much braver than I would be! I'm a pattern girl myself. I'd be beside myself having bought all that fabric and finding there was no 'pattern' to follow!

It drives my husband bananas when I start a new project. He was a precision engineer, head of the engineering department at one of the National Laboratories. His way of approaching a project is to figure out what you want, design each and every nut and bolt (millionth of an inch precision) and never deviate from the original design. I, on the other hand, have a general idea of what I want to do, how I want it to look, and (God willing and the creek don't rise) it usually turns out okay. Not always what it was supposed to look like when I started, but more than acceptable. He's been "planning" a trip to Europe for about six years. If it were up to me, we'd pack our bags, buy tickets and leave tomorrow. That's how I ended up in California. We had a blizzard in Missouri and I wanted someplace warm. I packed my car with clothing, shoes, camera, gassed it up and left. Started looking for a home in San Diego and over two weeks time I worked my way up to San Francisco. I've been here 12 years now. I met him about a year after I got here and just can't leave now.

Pattycakes 01-27-2013 09:01 AM

Yes I can relate. But did you concider taking a picture of the quilt at LQS and put it on the pc so you can look at it and make a pattern of you own. I have done this alot. I am still an amateur at quilting and will never know enough to concider my self an expert. I learn something new about quilting every day. Have fun with it. I know you can do it!!

quiltingeileen 01-27-2013 09:34 AM

You go girl!!! Great advice from other quilters. I have never been in this situation yet, but I'm sure my day will come.
Good luck and would love to see the finished quilt.

shrabar 01-27-2013 09:45 AM

can anyone relate???
 

Originally Posted by taiboo (Post 5812937)
I saw a quilt at a shop that i loved, so i bought fabrics that i love and came home....issue is, it is all free style cutting, there is no pattern...the pieces go in all different directions, different shapes...etc.

I desperately want to do this, i usually make my own patterns, but this particular style has no real pattern...its more of a fly by the seat of your pants kind of thing...cut here...cut there...make it all fit together.

It's exciting to have this challange ahead of me, but i never realized how much i think inside the box... my husband is like...just start cutting and see where you wind up...I don't know if i have this in me to do it.

Can anyone relate? How do you get past the fear of messing up lol???

Thanks
Kimberly

Just remember you don't make mistakes just new creations .. That is what I tell everyone I was never taught how to quilt just read & did what looked right .

pollyjvan9 01-27-2013 10:01 AM

I really like working in that manner sometimes. Would love to see a photo of the quilt you are going to make.


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