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roxie623 07-19-2011 09:20 PM

Mary,

If you wouldn't mind you can send some my way. I work with a Shelter for Elderly Abused Women here in AZ. I teach quilting to them and they would put you quilts to good use. You are a brave person to admit that you have a problem LOL, but even braver to put it in print. Don't feel bad though because there are plenty of us. Please pm me and I will send you any info you would like.

ArizonaQuilts1 07-19-2011 09:21 PM

Hi everyone,

This group is the kindest and best. You have overwhelmed me with generous offers to help bind quilts , offer advice and provide support. All I can say is thank you. I am sorry I have not replied to each of you yet. I have to work a demanding job so have had little time for mail. Plus I need some time to sort through all the great suggestions. I have a few ladies from my church coming on Saturday to pick up my charity quilts and I ordered a binding system. So, things are starting to fall into place.

My wonderful husband is looking into setting up a website so I can sell some quilts too. He also quilts and told me he would learn how to bind using the binding tool I purchased. Yeah!

I want to thank you for sharing your stories too. Seems like it's not that uncommon to have fabric addiction. That in itself makes me feel better. I guess if we didn't love quilting so much it would be another story, right?

I'll keep you posted. Thanks again for your kindness and support.

Hugs, Mary

mshollysd 07-20-2011 04:25 AM

Oh, Mary I am so glad things are going to work out for you. Keep your chin up and am really glad that DH is helping you out.

TacoMama 07-20-2011 04:35 AM

Bless you as you are going through this. I have fabric, but not really getting quilts done, only a few. There are places here that could use your quilts if you would like to pm me and see what I can do to help you.

AUQuilter 07-20-2011 05:18 AM

Mary, it is great to hear that you are sorting through things literally and figuratively. What a DH who will jump in and help out. I think your bringing this up has prompted many of us to "look" at our fabrics. I know I did and it is an eye opener.

ScrappyAZ 07-20-2011 05:34 AM


Originally Posted by karon21195
Hi Mary, - my favorite part of quilting is hand sewing the binding - weird, huh? I live in the San Fernando Valley but might be in Arizona next month on vacation. Maybe we can work something out together - Karon

OMG, you're brave enough to come to AZ in the summer for vacation?? We generally like to get the heck out of AZ in the summer. Hubby and I are heading to Newport Beach this weekend. Wish there were quilt stores in that area.

ywoodruff5 07-20-2011 05:59 AM

LMHO - sooooooooo true!

krabadan 07-21-2011 10:09 AM

See if Rehab has a spot for me too!

Tootsie 07-21-2011 10:23 AM

Mary, if the number of replies are an indication, you've definitely hit a nerve! There's a fine line somewhere between hobby and hoarding, and believe me, I've been to both. You've taken great steps in regaining control and returning to sanity! Good luck and keep us posted on your journey :-)

wraez 07-23-2011 11:52 AM

Birds of a feather flock together ... fabricoholics Anonymous!

jpthequilter 07-24-2011 02:28 AM


Originally Posted by ArizonaQuilts1
Hi Quilters,

After reading some of the recent posts about fabric addiction, I've come to realize I've hit rock bottom. Everywhere I look there are either quilts, PIGS (Projects in Grocery Sacks) or fabrics of all persuasions. There are 7 sewing machines, multitudes of storage bins, cutters, threads, rulers, patterns, books and every notion ever concocted. I have scraps out the wazoo, there are bolts of backings, battings of all weights, interfactings, 8 irons and 4 ironing boards.

There are piles of quilts carefully covered with white sheets in 2 bedrooms. There are quilts rolled up behind the sofas and under the beds. Most of these quilts are unbound because I hate binding. The stacks amount to anywhere from 300-400 quilts, runners, placemats, table toppers, treeskirts and wall hangings. There is a huge bookshelf full of totes, small bags, checkbook covers and zipper pouches. The massive cabinets my DH built a few years ago are so overstuffed, I can't pull anything out without creating a fabric tsunami.

My computer contains links to hundreds of fabric e-stores, quilting blogs and pattern sites. I've signed up for newsletters and fabric ads to the point where I can't keep up with my mail. Every mail sent to me is a temptation. The mail carriers, UPS and Fed-X delivery people know me by name. The bank no longer calls and asks "is this your purchase from ______ (fill in the name of the fabric store) or did somebody get their hands on your credit card?"

I can't go on like this so I have decided to check myself into fabric rehab. I need to come up with a plan to regain my sanity.

So fellow quilters, I am going to count on your support as I go thru this journey. Any tips and/or advice is greatly appreciated.

Finally, I hear you get fabric withdrawal symptoms that are very unflattering to otherwise mild-mannered quilters, so please bear with me.

Mary, proclaimed fabric addict.....July 16, 2011

Do you want to know what museums do when confronted with sorting out a collection like yours?
First, get enough boxes to hold it all. Then start rough sorting all the same things together into the same place.
Remember to sort fabric by color, because that is the way
you think of it~! Only red in one, green in others,so on,
(I have 24 of them)

redmadder 07-24-2011 02:57 AM

I've been P&M cause there are so few fabrics left, only four bins, down from a roomful. Yesterday I went thru them and realized its not the fabrics keeping me from getting to work, but me. I just need inspiration to try new things and use these fabrics I've passed over in favor of stuff in my comfort zone. Sorted by color, ready to start thinking in terms of scrap happy quilts.

jpthequilter 07-24-2011 03:08 AM

Do you want to know how museums sort out a collection like yours? ONE Rule! = Same things together!
First estimate the volume of it all, and get enough cardboard boxes to hold it. - Don't worry, you won't keep the boxes, they are just for sorting.
Stand the ironing boards up to help clear space. or use them for sorting tables. Start by clearing the fabric out of the storage cabinets and sort it by color into boxes - do not be surprised if you have 12 or more color categories. (I have 24) Leave the tops open.
Now you have a place to put your all of your non fabric stuff!!!! Notions, patterns, scissors and cutters. Get clear plastic shoeboxes, and put them on the shelves, and sort the notions into them. remembering, "Same things together" Like thread, or ribbons. You might not leave them there, but after they are sorted, they need a place just to be!!!!
Do this until you get a rough sorting of everything. Batting is a third category. Bag it in clear bags and put it all together too! Fill up a closet to the ceiling with it just to get it out from underfoot, if you can!
NOW, you can work on arranging where you want things to go!
Remember, you have to have enough storage shelves to hold all of your fabric and notions, because they can't float in the air.
Good luck! Hope this helps! Feel free to PM me ! I am a retired museum director, and am glad to help! jpthequilter
PS forgot to say -
give away or sell what you can,
Buy a couple of rolling racks to hang as many of your quilts as you can.

Annaquilts 07-24-2011 03:23 AM

Hmmm.... not sure what to say. Maybe we are the wrong crowd to ask for help? Your place sounds like quilters heaven.

My time 07-24-2011 08:26 PM

Were you on tv on a show about a quoted who was a horder? Lol

Dixiejar 07-25-2011 08:49 AM

Mary,
I am behind in reading Quilting Board posts due to quilting projects. Let us all know where the rehab center is so we can reserve a getaway too. My quilting "studio" has taken over the master bedroom, dining room and the large walk in closet. We sleep in the smallest guest bedroom since the king size bed in the master is covered with fabric and WIP. Your posting made me laugh so hard!!!!
Enjoy your addiction!
JoAnn Rice
Scottsdale, AZ

MissJMac 07-27-2011 02:50 AM

Mary, my dear:
I have carefully read your post - twice. For the life of me I can't identify a problem here. Don't be so hard on yourself. In the general scheme of things, you appear to be conducting your life in a manner befitting any well-adjusted quilter of the 21st century.
You obviously have a love of fabric, evidenced by the amount you've acquired and the way you've stored it on shelves, in bags, tubs, buckets, etc.
You are careful with your quilts, evidenced by the care you give them in covering them with sheets and rolling them rather than folding and creasing them.
You've had your DH build to shelves to store and display your fabrics, which speaks well of you.
If there is one thing needed to ease you into a state of true comfort - it would be to have DH build you more shelves. When He built the first ones, he obviously didn't take into consideration the growth you would develop.
All in all - there's nothing wrong with you that a few more shelves, and perhaps a room addition, can't make right.


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