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katyquilter 06-30-2011 04:05 AM

My brother in law recently told me he didn't think it was a quilt unless it was "hand quilted" - I told him I hated to inform him but he was no longer on my list of folks to receive a quilt from me!!

Aurora 06-30-2011 04:09 AM

Some folks just get set in their ways and refuse to change or try something new.[/quote]

CJ,

I think those folks grow older faster than those of us who embrace change/new things. We force ourselves to expand and keep our brains active, which is a very thing.

quiltingme 06-30-2011 04:10 AM

I took a couple of classes from a wonderful local teacher who told me that,
"it's your quilt you can't make a mistake.". So, just do what YOU want to do...you are in charge!

patski 06-30-2011 04:17 AM

I totally agree. Do what you enjoy!

Dodie 06-30-2011 04:27 AM

I love new things and techniques that is why I take classes and have umpteen UFO's another class coming up Aug 6th

christina d 06-30-2011 04:44 AM

FMQ is an art I personally have alot of trouble trying hopefully I will get better I think it is a real talent to do

Great-great granny 06-30-2011 04:48 AM


Originally Posted by janRN
Linda what a great topic. I was feeling kinda blue because I read that some quilters "only" use LQS fabrics or "only" use expensive threads. I'm unemployed so I use what I can afford. Call me a cheap date, but my quilts turn out just fine and my machine sews best with good ol' Coates & Clark thread.
I really don't think there are any "only"s or "must do"s--just enjoy what you do and do it with love.

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Goodness janRN - DON'T feel "blue" about where/what kinds of supplies you buy - perhaps some are forgetting where quilting began - USING SCRAPS FROM OLD CLOTHES!!!

And the title of this is RIGHT ON - TO EACH HIS/HER OWN!! Personally I machine piece & still try to hand quilt as my ole hands allow, buy bargain materials (on a fixed SM budget) --- BUT ANY quilt is a treasure - someone put their heart into it, sometimes for someone special.

IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY - don't worry about what others think!!!

HAPPY QUILTING & may all your quilts be filled w/LOVE!!!! :lol:

SuzyQ 06-30-2011 04:49 AM

I never say never. My tastes change all the time and I always love to try something new.

Great-great granny 06-30-2011 04:50 AM


Originally Posted by Val in IN
I agree. I thought that this was one of the best reasons to join this on-line forum...TO LEARN! Just think how boring it would be if everyone used the same criteria for fabrics, patterns, sewing techniques and supplies.

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Mis. E 06-30-2011 05:12 AM

I agree If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all.Ill try anything different if it works.

Mis. E 06-30-2011 05:15 AM

I agree if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all.Ill try anything if it works

oldswimmer 06-30-2011 05:18 AM

Well, some people would have refused to get off their horse and ride in an automobile. I say, the more things change...the more they stay the same...for them. Its just the way they are. Fortunatly there are many more that like to try new things and those are the ones that propel us forward.
So here, here to all the innovative quilters that have given us so many, new and marvelous ways to make quilts! And they are as solid, and love filled as any of the hand made ones of the past! (stepping of my box now)

mshollysd 06-30-2011 05:26 AM


Originally Posted by EagarBeez
I was also faced with someone telling me that my quilts are not quilts because they are tied. I asked her, back during the days of the old west and even after that, were quilts tied??? I do what I can. I love making quilts, experimenting with colors, looking at the next quilt to be more of a challenge then the last. It also relaxes me.I have 2 fabrics with batting in the middle, and tied. I can't afford a machine or sending out.
It's my quilt. I like the results

I have hand tied quilts for both personal and church quilts for 30 years. It is only recently that I took the time to learn to machine quilt. I hand quilted a quilt that took me 7 years to finish. Never again I like raw edged applique. I know that I am going to get some comments from the quilting police that don't like raw edge but so what!!! Deal with it!!!!! LOL

Weenween 06-30-2011 05:45 AM


Originally Posted by Linda71
It always surprises me when someone says "I would NEVER do/try/use/ or whatever". My mother has a friend who quilts and she will not go to a quilt show because "People use MACHINES to quilt-That is not REAL quilting".

I will try any thread, material, technique, anything new or old, and I will use or do it. I love trying new and different things and materials and threads, whatever. The only requirement is I must ENJOY it.

AMAN I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU.

Scrap Happy 06-30-2011 05:46 AM

Quilting is such a beautiful and creative outlet for so many. It’s a way for quilters to give and express their love to their family friends and their community. There was a time women had to make quilts for their families to stay warm. I'm sure they would have loved today's advances in quiltmaking if they had a choice. To each their own I guess but a rose is a rose by any other name. :-D

Cassews 06-30-2011 05:48 AM


Originally Posted by EagarBeez
I have been getting great tips/ideas from this board, and learning a whole bunch of different things to try. The motto I follow is, your never too old to learn

Oh I agree whole heartedly !!! One is never too old to learn and once you stop learning you either become stale (bitter as my daughter calls it) or the alternative !LOL

hospicenurse 06-30-2011 05:48 AM

I agree totally!!! I can't stand someone who criticizes the work and love someone puts into a quilt. Who cares if it is machine quilted, tied, or put together with glue for that matter, it is their project. It makes my blood boil to be so narrow minded.

Abby'smom 06-30-2011 05:52 AM

if I didn't machine piece, the thing wouldn't stay together -- I hand quilt bigger things because I can't machine quilt well or easily -- machine quilting is hard and takes practice, patience, talent -- to each her/his own, according to her/his abilties -but us old dogs can learn new tricks -- lol

Rose Marie 06-30-2011 05:53 AM

If they had sewing machines in the old days would they have kept on hand sewing?
Not a chance.

grammysharon 06-30-2011 06:05 AM

I'm with you. I like trying new things. I hope I live long enough to try every quilt pattern that I am interested in. I know it is not possible but I keep working through @ least 3-4 new techniques a year. Want to try fabric painting this year!!!

Originally Posted by Linda71
It always surprises me when someone says "I would NEVER do/try/use/ or whatever". My mother has a friend who quilts and she will not go to a quilt show because "People use MACHINES to quilt-That is not REAL quilting".

I will try any thread, material, technique, anything new or old, and I will use or do it. I love trying new and different things and materials and threads, whatever. The only requirement is I must ENJOY it.

:lol:

many craft person 06-30-2011 06:19 AM


Originally Posted by Zhillslady
Absolutely. I had a quilt teacher tell me yesterday I can't FMQ with Isacord polyester as we don't know how well it will hold up in 100 years. I love it and use it all the time.

who care 100 yrs from now -

catrancher 06-30-2011 06:24 AM


Originally Posted by janRN
Linda what a great topic. I was feeling kinda blue because I read that some quilters "only" use LQS fabrics or "only" use expensive threads. I'm unemployed so I use what I can afford. Call me a cheap date, but my quilts turn out just fine and my machine sews best with good ol' Coates & Clark thread.
I really don't think there are any "only"s or "must do"s--just enjoy what you do and do it with love.

My grandmother's beautiful quilts are made from my grandfather's cut up shirts and nightshirts, and from hers and my mother's cut up dresses and nightgowns. She would have been appalled at the cost of thread and fabric nowadays.

Further, time marches on. Attitudes that cling to old and time-consuming methods at the expense of modern ones aren't realistic. We don't weave our own cloth any more, nor do we spin our own thread!

gemladi 06-30-2011 06:27 AM

I am with you, try it you might like it! That is what my mom used to say and it is still so true. Gemladi

Terryl 06-30-2011 06:29 AM


Originally Posted by abdconsultant
join my next swap and you'll get to try something different.


What's your next swap, and when does it begin?

jeannie t 06-30-2011 06:31 AM

If we didn't try new things we would still be in high button shoes! We have alot of new horizons to explore.

gemladi 06-30-2011 06:32 AM

I went to a Ricky Tims lecture and he is from small town America and he supports his local quilt shops and suggested we all do the same. He also understands that some people can only purchase fabric from discount stores and he said the important thing is to do what you love "QUILT".

I for one have seen so many beautiful old quilts that were made from every frabric available. I was fortunate enough to help put blocks together into a pattern for 5 queen size quilts from old donated fabrics from clothes. I will post some of the photos. I love quilting and will use what is needed to keep on quilting and suggest everyone do the same.

grannypat7925 06-30-2011 06:36 AM

Love experiencing the learning of new things. Cannot be closed minded these days and you will lose out quickly. Variety is the spice of life..........it's what keeps things going and makes life interesting!

bearisgray 06-30-2011 06:50 AM

I think even "way back when" - whenever that was -

there were the "fancy" quilts that used "good, new" fabric - the wedding quilt, for example - made with great care

the family "everyday" ones - less expensive fabric, the odds and ends left over from making clothing - well made, but not overly labored over

"the hired man's quilts" - tended to be skimpy, made of "whatever" - probably made to hold together, but not much "extra" went into them

union lady 06-30-2011 07:01 AM


Originally Posted by Linda71
It always surprises me when someone says "I would NEVER do/try/use/ or whatever". My mother has a friend who quilts and she will not go to a quilt show because "People use MACHINES to quilt-That is not REAL quilting".

I will try any thread, material, technique, anything new or old, and I will use or do it. I love trying new and different things and materials and threads, whatever. The only requirement is I must ENJOY it.

I think many of the women who had no such option would love having a sewing machine.

catmcclure 06-30-2011 07:12 AM


Originally Posted by Linda71
It always surprises me when someone says "I would NEVER do/try/use/ or whatever". My mother has a friend who quilts and she will not go to a quilt show because "People use MACHINES to quilt-That is not REAL quilting".

I will try any thread, material, technique, anything new or old, and I will use or do it. I love trying new and different things and materials and threads, whatever. The only requirement is I must ENJOY it.

Back in the "Good Old Days" in the latter part of the 1800's a status symbol was a sewing machine. They weren't just used for decoration. They sewed clothing, and "gasp" QUILTS on those things. It was the most marvelous invention for women ever. If you go to quilt museums you will find a lot of quilts made in the 1870's on up that were pieced AND quilted on the sewing machine. Don't ever let somebody tell you that "real" quilters only do things by hand. That's an elitist attitude and comes from the fact that well-to-do women (without a job and with household help) had/have time to sit and handpiece everything.

Margie 06-30-2011 07:13 AM

AMEN with your philosophy!

gramajo 06-30-2011 07:14 AM


Originally Posted by GreatStarter
I used to be one of those people. Was orginially taught by an elderly woman (who was marvelous) and everything was by hand. When my hands got so bad I couldn't hold a needle for long (even after surgery on both) I gave up quilting. For years I mourned the lose of my ability to quilt-then finally I thought what is wrong with me? Just sew by machine!!!! Even though I can no longer do the beautiful baltimore album appliques by hand. I can quilt just about anything else I want to by machine. Why did I waste so many years?!!!!!

Kat

I'm with you. I can no longer hold a needle because of RA. I'd done counted cross stitch & needlepoint for years & really missed having a creative outlet. My daughter suggested quilting by machine. I am totally addicted to it now :lol: :lol:

Emma S 06-30-2011 07:18 AM

It seems as soon as I say, "I can't imagine myself......., my subconscience kicks in and I find myself plotting to do just that.

glorybound 06-30-2011 07:19 AM

It depends on your creativity streak. Those more gifted turn out one of a kind quilts - those less so don't push boundaries. The joy and fun of quilting is to express yourself at your level. Sometimes you just have to feel sorry for the critics, but the world is way wider than what they think.

f rogers 06-30-2011 07:27 AM

i always thought a guilt had to be done by hand . I did my first two completely by hand, thanI saw Alex Anderson on simply quilts . changed everything. I still did hand quilting. as i like the looks of it l all my children have quilts I have HAnd quilted. took forever. I have Parkinsons so now I quilt them on machine. still learning to do that.

BarbaraSue 06-30-2011 07:36 AM

You know what is most important for me is the fun and creativity I get when I quilt. While it is nice to have others think what I do is good for my ego, the quilts I give to friends and relatives that use the snot out of them are my best compliments. I am not a heirloom seamstress or quilter. I like that the quilt gets used. My dGm made lots of quilts on her treadle machine. she pieced and quilted on her treadle machine back in the 30's. They are my prized possessions.
The person who has to catergorize the quilter as in a lesser group than those who do "such and such" are the persons to be pittied. Their lives must not be full to any extent, and are likely not very happy. Sorry for them.

BellaBoo 06-30-2011 07:40 AM


Originally Posted by jlm5419
This reminds me of my oldest son, who is a terrific cook. One Thanksgiving dinner at my house he refused to eat any of my pies because I had used frozen pie crust!

I would make sure every pie I made when he was here to eat it would be made from frozen pie crusts and just smile. 8-) 8-) 8-)

Jingle 06-30-2011 08:08 AM

Do what you like how you like and you will be happy with it. Why worry about what others think? Some try to convince you that things and words should be copied from them. Sad people.

teacherbailey 06-30-2011 08:11 AM

Your title says it best. There are too many rules in the rest of our lives to worry about quilting rules!!!!! So what if all of my points don't meet perfectly? If it drives me crazy, I'll fix it. Otherwise I'll do something differently next time.... vive' la difference!

k9dancer 06-30-2011 08:18 AM


Originally Posted by katyquilter
My brother in law recently told me he didn't think it was a quilt unless it was "hand quilted" - I told him I hated to inform him but he was no longer on my list of folks to receive a quilt from me!!

Really? How many has he hand quilted?


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