Originally Posted by mamaw
A true friend will always give an honest answer, whether it be positive or negative. I always say if I don't like something; and agree to disagree.
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I have a friend who insists on wearing clothes that are neither age-appropriate, nor do they fit half the time. (She believes in the tighter is better concept.) When we go shopping and she tries on something that I wouldn't be caught dead in, I know by the way she presents (prances) how badly she wants it. Her "what do you think?" really doesn't matter because in her mind's eye she looks beautiful - despite the gigantic mirror in the dressing room that screams "my eyes! my eyes!"
In fabric selection, I may be more direct but I try very hard to qualify my statements. I have allowed myself to be talked out of or into fabric because of someone's personal taste. One person's ugly is another's Mona Lisa. |
Originally Posted by wvdek
Be honest.
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i'm far too often revoltingly free with my opinion, whether it's appropriate or not. sooooo, i have been known to tell friends that something they are about to buy is gag-a-maggot ugly.
i also make sure to tell them: if you like it, my opinion is irrelevant. |
im always too honest for my own good... but me telling my grandmother how hideous her choices were never changed her choices anyway.. If some1 likes a fabric, no1 elses opinion should change that. :D
but i like the idea of a group of friends hunting down the ugliest each can find and swap them around for a challenge between friends, sounds fun :D |
Whether it's fabric, a new hair style, an outfit, or anything else, my friends know that if they don't want my honest opinion DON'T ASK. I always answer honestly. I know that in the past there's been times when people have gotten their feelings hurt but then a few days later they'll ask for my opinion again. As one lady put it, "I'm asking you because I know you'll tell me the truth."
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ok, here is what I do. If asked if i like a fabric, I will say yes or no.
If asked if a fabric will work in something and shown a picture, i will think about it and then answer, considering the size of the print, the value of the color, etc. Whether i think a fabric is ugly or not, really depends on what it will be used for. I have seen stripes and polka dots in places i wouldn't use them, and some quilts wouldn't be the same without them. But, however I say it, I do tell the truth. That is what they are asking for. I have on occassion, laughingly asked a question and suggested that they "lie" to me, lie to me!" :wink: (not about fabrics though. I always make up MY OWN mind about those). :mrgreen: |
You can always hide ugly fabric in a quilt!
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Originally Posted by Tally Kathy
You can always hide ugly fabric in a quilt!
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I usually tell them what I think about the fabric - but in my experience it's like that old saying 'one man's trash is another man's treasure. It's all a matter of taste and what appeals to each of us is sometimes different.
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