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dsb38327 04-13-2010 05:12 AM

I hope this topic doesn't get me on anyone's bad side. I am pleased and impressed that men sew. My husband knows crochet from watching his mother and grandmother crochet for so many years, though he didn't practice doing it. He has respect and admiration for it.
I always wanted Daddy to teach me how to do the things he did under the hood of the cars. Mother wouldn't let me go out there when he was working on cars. She said I would get hurt when he threw the wrenches and he used those words I wasn't supposed to hear. I could have been a topnotch mechanic. He had so much to teach me that I never got to learn and I regret it to this day.
I would enjoy your stories if you want to share them. Does your wife sew as well?

ckcowl 04-13-2010 05:51 AM

boy, i wrote a whole page and lost it...here goes again...

i'm not a man, but i've taught a few to quilt...started with my nephew (then 20)he was laid off, and hanging out with me...i was working on a stained glass block...he was intrigued...within a couple days he decided he wanted to try it himself...went to the computer found a coloring book page of a raccoon, enlarged it, printed it and created this AWESOME block, then he grew his (zoo) with a duck, bunny, turtle...was on a roll...
then my oldest son hits the scene...never to be outdone by his cousin...he jumped in (in a total different direction) created some pretty cool blocks then decided his interest is more in painting/dying fabrics...enter the youngest son(about 14 at the time) and he not to ever be outdone by the older two designed himself an pretty cool quilt...
they are all 3 very creative...and over the years have pushed my to find new techniques and figure out how to do things...
like curved piecing...i had not done any...one day Jess(the nephew) comes to me with a block going wrong..."aunt colleen, how does this work...its not working..." so, i had to do some research and do some practicing then teach all 3 guys how to do curves...then my son shows up with a problem...card trick...partial seams....back to the computer....they push me...they are FABULOUS at picking out colors/putting together collections...i always turn to one of them if i['m trying to put together a color run...they can without even thought pulll out the fab that should not be there and put in what works... and all 3 of them have in turn taught their girlfriends how to sew :)

Quilter7x 04-13-2010 05:54 AM

What a great story Colleen! And what a wonderful lady you are for teaching them.

Dorothy, I'm glad you asked this question. The answers are going to be fun!

Lisa_wanna_b_quilter 04-13-2010 06:14 AM

Dsb, don't worry about getting on the guys bad side on here. They won't be insulted that you asked what got them sewing. I'm sure you will get some good answers.

Candace 04-13-2010 06:19 AM

Funny enough, my son has been the one even remotely interested in my projects. When he was a little boy, he used to take pieces of my fabric to bed with him to snuggle with. When I brought home my new machine he was the one that wanted to play with it and the new motorized sewing table. I had to actually drag him off of it as he was getting a tad rough with it... I don't know if he'll actually sew one day, but between him and my daughter, he's got more of an interest.

Eddie 04-13-2010 06:25 AM

I'll share my story and hope it doesn't bore anyone to tears. :) I started quilting about a year ago now and there was an event that actually sparked me to get into it. I'm involved in a local historic preservation group in my town, and I'm president of the board that oversees the preservation of the oldest home in town (built in 1852). We have several open houses each year at the historic park that has this house in it and we do a quilt exhibit each May. So during last year's exhibit I was walking around looking at all the quilts and thinking to myself "I bet I could do this." I remember looking at the quilts and thinking over them in terms of construction, i.e., looking at each block and thinking how they came together in a logical way. So after the exhibit I went to the local bookstore and bought a couple of quilting magazines, went to Wal-Mart and bought some fabric, went to the local sewing machine dealer and bought a machine. And made my first quilt. :D

Looking back now, I think I was drawn to quilting as simply another art form that allows me an avenue to create. I have an art background, having taken lessons in painting from a couple of different teachers. I've won honors in several competitions, so having the art background coming into quilting helps a lot I think in being able to choose colors of fabrics that will play well together.

I haven't painted in years (probably 10 or more now), because while I had all the awards and praise from people telling me that I was good, I still had to really work at it to make a painting that I was even remotely satisfied with. For every one painting I completed, I probably trashed 10 others. I think a lot of that was me being overly self-critical of my work, though. But with quilting, it's a pretty different story - maybe I've simply matured beyond caring so much about the perfectionism, I don't know. But I see it as enjoyable, rather than work.

So, there it is. :D

Quilting D 04-13-2010 06:36 AM

Wow Eddie. Wonderful story. I have to say though my mouth dropped when you said you'd only been quilting a year. You do such amazing work I thought you'd quilted for many, many years. Hey guys I'm looking forward to hearing your stories.

Lostn51 04-13-2010 06:59 AM

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Eddie you and I are a lot alike!!

How I got into this was really funny in a way.......

I was restoring the home I am in now and found an old Singer 27 in the attic. I played with it for a second and made a mental note about it being up there. A couple of years ago I was thinking about it so I ran up in the attic and pulled the machine down to look at how it worked and see if I could get it functioning again. The treadle is down in my bedroom with a slab of marble sitting on it for my wifes make up table. So I had no way of powering it.....yet!! I found the NeedleBar and started learning about Vintage sewing machines. Since I love history and mechanics it was destiny that I would get into collecting sewing machines.

Well I bought a complete treadle and refinished it and slipped my machine I had fixed up into it and I was ready to go. I wanted to make something with it but I didnt know how to sew.

Like Eddie I was looking around the fabric store and was looking at a quilt and was figuring out how the made it. I thought to myself "that should be easy enough" and I bought some fabric and thread and headed home. I didnt have a pattern or books or anything like that I just thought I would start cutting and go from there. I made a 9 patch with a big sashing and border for a lap quilt for my wife, all on a treadle.

After I was finished making her quilt I was hooked!!

Billy

The quilt that started it all!!
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miholmes 04-13-2010 07:18 AM

Well I don't have a very exciting story, but here it is.

When I was about 8 or 9 my family loaded up the old Thunderbird filled with Crystal Gayle 8-tracks and drove from Iowa to North Carolina where my grandmother lived.

She quilted and had a large quilt frame that was weighted in the living room. It was attached to something that allowed it to be raised and lowered.

I just remember watching her and my mother sitting around the living room in the evening and quilting. They would sit there for hours talking and quilting and I would play under the quilt.

Anyway I was never SUPER interested in it at that time, I used to help them occasionally when I was REALLY bored, but there was a whole mountain to explore so I normally only quilted alittle on the days it rained or when my mother would call me in for the night, and I didn't want to go to bed.

We spent the entire summer there, and then drove back to Iowa. We didn't really see my grandmother that much because of the distance, but she would send quilts to us in the mail, one of them I remember was a Snoopy quilt she made for me.

I've always liked quilts, there something comforting and "folksey" about them. Wrapping up in them on a cold winter's day or listening to the rain fall outside your window. They have always seemed to be a source of comfort for me.

I recently got married and recieved an Amish quilt as a wedding gift, it was SPECTACULAR...there was a small card that came with it that had the woman's name on it and said 1 woman, 1 needle. And I thought....WOW....that was a lot of hardwork and hours put into making that quilt.

I volunteer for an animal rescue and thought, wouldn't it be GREAT if I could make some "Critter Quilts" for people to buy at the farmers market in the summer? Basically a quilted dog mat?

So I started gathering supplies and set out to do that for my first project. However a friend of mine had a baby, so my first quilt ever was a baby quilt. THEN I made a twin quilt to auction for our dog rescue, then another quilt...I have YET to make a critter quilt. But it's still on my list.

Quilting just relaxes me, there is something to be said when you are working in front of you machine and you kinda of hit a rhythem, where it's just you and the machine, and your only worry is your 1/4 inch seam allowance. :)

Well anyway, that's why I started quilting and how I feel about it.

sharon b 04-13-2010 07:44 AM

Thanks for starting this thread , it is fascinating to read what got the guys hooked :lol:

Lisa_wanna_b_quilter 04-13-2010 07:55 AM

Nice story, Michael, but you really look too young for 8-tracks!!

dsb38327 04-13-2010 08:31 AM


Originally Posted by ckcowl
boy, i wrote a whole page and lost it...here goes again...

i'm not a man, but i've taught a few to quilt...started with my nephew (then 20)he was laid off, and hanging out with me...i was working on a stained glass block...he was intrigued...within a couple days he decided he wanted to try it himself...went to the computer found a coloring book page of a raccoon, enlarged it, printed it and created this AWESOME block, then he grew his (zoo) with a duck, bunny, turtle...was on a roll...
then my oldest son hits the scene...never to be outdone by his cousin...he jumped in (in a total different direction) created some pretty cool blocks then decided his interest is more in painting/dying fabrics...enter the youngest son(about 14 at the time) and he not to ever be outdone by the older two designed himself an pretty cool quilt...
they are all 3 very creative...and over the years have pushed my to find new techniques and figure out how to do things...
like curved piecing...i had not done any...one day Jess(the nephew) comes to me with a block going wrong..."aunt colleen, how does this work...its not working..." so, i had to do some research and do some practicing then teach all 3 guys how to do curves...then my son shows up with a problem...card trick...partial seams....back to the computer....they push me...they are FABULOUS at picking out colors/putting together collections...i always turn to one of them if i['m trying to put together a color run...they can without even thought pulll out the fab that should not be there and put in what works... and all 3 of them have in turn taught their girlfriends how to sew :)

Ohh,, I love it. Hugs./Dorothy

dsb38327 04-13-2010 08:39 AM


Originally Posted by Quilting D
Wow Eddie. Wonderful story. I have to say though my mouth dropped when you said you'd only been quilting a year. You do such amazing work I thought you'd quilted for many, many years. Hey guys I'm looking forward to hearing your stories.

I agree. I like your story. So far I see the designer and architect coming out in the stories I have read this far. I really like it.
I want to comment on each one but there will be too much me on the post, this is so good. Thank you so much. I am really enjoying it.

Esqmommy 04-13-2010 08:46 AM

Wow, I love these stories. Just shows how much more we women and men are alike than different. It's nice to see it!

More stories!!

chewboo 04-13-2010 09:06 AM

love to see the stories guys it is always interesting how any of us got into quilting as it was starting to become a lost art

Tiffany 04-13-2010 09:16 AM


Originally Posted by Lisa_wanna_b_quilter
Nice story, Michael, but you really look too young for 8-tracks!!

I agree completely!

Thank you for sharing your stories. I haven't found any of them boring. I have a two year old grandson and I'm looking forward to turning him into a quilter, which should horrify my manly son-in-law. :lol: Any insight into how to better instill a lifelong quilting addiction is always welcome!

ranger 04-13-2010 09:31 AM

Wonderful stories. Thanks for sharing them. I like reading about how others got the quilting 'bug'.

sewcrafty 04-13-2010 11:37 AM

I think its great guys quilt!!! My DH absolutely loves quilts. His mother use to quilt. Could not get him to quilt though, he doesn't have enough patience for it, but he definitely appreciates it!!

saf45 04-13-2010 01:04 PM

great stories,

Pam 04-13-2010 04:52 PM

A lady in my guild churns out the most wonderful pieced quilts. Her hubby cuts and she sews, they make a great team. I keep trying to get my hubby to do that , but no luck with that yet.

Oklahoma Suzie 04-13-2010 05:22 PM


Originally Posted by Quilter7x
What a great story Colleen! And what a wonderful lady you are for teaching them.

Dorothy, I'm glad you asked this question. The answers are going to be fun!

yeah, thanks for asking.

Glenn 04-13-2010 05:48 PM

I lived with my grandmother for several years. She taught me to sew by mending my play clothes. You know sew buttons and such. She said I should learn this so I could take care of myself. She also taught me to knit and crochet. I would have rather been playing ball outside!!! LOL We made a quilt together and I have beeen sewing and quilting ever since about 6 years old. I am now 63. I have her old treadle singer and all her sewing stuff, including some unusual pin cushions. I use all of it still today. I piece with the singer and quilt by hand. I am retired army officer and made all my wife's formal dresses for all the balls we attended. When I get a new digital camera I will post pictures. Glenn from Huntsville :lol:

granniebj 04-13-2010 06:04 PM

I loved reading this thread! Glad to see there are men in this group, no matter what motivated them to learn! We're all quite different in the way we go about it, but seems like we all feel the same about quilts!

dsb38327 04-14-2010 05:33 PM

These stories were all heartwarming. Thank-you for sharing.

aardvarq 04-14-2010 06:28 PM

Well, my story . . .

We had to make money go farther than far when I was growing up. Mother didn't make all our clothes but made a fair portion. My brother, sister and I learned to do everything we needed to take care of the basics; sister to fix a car and my brother and I to use the sewing machine. Everybody planted the garden, fixed things that broke, etc.

I also have an art background which my father supported. It was one of the first things he observed about me as child that he recognized as part of my personality. So, I have been doing visual things like drawing and painting all my life. We lived up a 'holler' in the coalfields of West Virginia, but my father arranged for me to apprentice to a traveling artist who painted wall murals as his specialty. He was a coal miner by profession.

I spent weekends traveling around the tri-state area learning composition, color theory, perspective, and cleaning a lot of brushes and packing a lot of gear.

Years later I took formal training in high school and college, but never worked in the field.

Ten years or so ago, I needed a tree skirt for my Christmas tree. Saw one I liked in the department store for over a hundred dollars and said it can't cost that much to make . . . It didn't, but some of the quilts I have made since then have!

I went to the local fabric store to get supplies for the tree skirt. Didn't know there were quilting supply stores at the time. Four sewing machines and one sewing studio in my basement later, and I know what LQS means.

lclang 04-14-2010 06:51 PM

I have been sewing all my life but drew the line after sewing upholstery for my husband's Model T. He pulled the fabric and I pushed. It was a nightmare with an old household machine. I told him I would never do another. So when he finished a 1929 Nash sedan he purchased a used upholstery machine and made the patterns himself (the old upholstery and padding was all gone and he had just the springs to work with). He sewed all the pieces and did a very nice job. He hasn't done any quilting but I am convinced that he could make a fine quilter! Our son was very proud of himself because he learned to knit. He loved quilts but never did any real sewing. He did patch a few pairs of his jeans when I couldn't get to them as fast as he thought I should.

Zephyr 04-14-2010 07:01 PM

Thanks for a most interesting thread. I really enjoyed the history of these special quilters.

stitchinwitch 04-15-2010 04:01 AM

Thank you so much for starting this thread. It is really interesting - and personally I am AMAZED at EDDIE doing this EXPERT work after one year! whew!! Keep it up guys! We all LOVE your work and creativity - even tho we envy it sooo bad!

mjsylvstr 04-15-2010 04:07 AM

my hubby doesn't quilt but is a big help when it comes to "me needing help"

He has been doing wooden quilts to hang on the outside garage, shed or wherever and they are adorable.

He started doing that by preparing the wood for me but then I decided that it might be fun for him to do and now it's his quilting time !!!!

dsb38327 04-15-2010 04:39 AM


Originally Posted by aardvarq
Well, my story . . .

We had to make money go farther than far when I was growing up. Mother didn't make all our clothes but made a fair portion. My brother, sister and I learned to do everything we needed to take care of the basics; sister to fix a car and my brother and I to use the sewing machine. Everybody planted the garden, fixed things that broke, etc.

I also have an art background which my father supported. It was one of the first things he observed about me as child that he recognized as part of my personality. So, I have been doing visual things like drawing and painting all my life. We lived up a 'holler' in the coalfields of West Virginia, but my father arranged for me to apprentice to a traveling artist who painted wall murals as his specialty. He was a coal miner by profession.

Your description of growing up in your family gives me the feeling of a closeknit, loving and caring family with everyone treated equally. Nice. I enjoyed it.

dsb38327 04-15-2010 04:52 AM


Originally Posted by ckcowl
i'm not a man, but i've taught a few to quilt...started with my nephew (then 20)
then my oldest son hits the scene...never to be outdone by his cousin
..enter the youngest son(about 14 at the time) and he not to ever be outdone by the older two designed himself an pretty cool quilt...
they are all 3 very creative...and over the years have pushed my to find new techniques and figure out how to do things...
like curved piecing...
..they push me...they are FABULOUS at picking out colors/putting together collections
.. and all 3 of them have in turn taught their girlfriends how to sew :)

You are a strong, loving leader. Many will be blessed for their lifetime with the knowledge you passed on to them. I enjoyed your story. Thank-you for sharing.

hokieappmom 04-15-2010 04:53 AM


Originally Posted by Glenn
I am retired army officer and made all my wife's formal dresses for all the balls we attended. When I get a new digital camera I will post pictures. Glenn from Huntsville :lol:

I'm impressed! Can't wait to see pictures from all the gents. These are great stories from everyone.

dsb38327 04-15-2010 04:54 AM


Originally Posted by Lisa_wanna_b_quilter
Dsb, don't worry about getting on the guys bad side on here. They won't be insulted that you asked what got them sewing. I'm sure you will get some good answers.

So far, so good. These stories warm my heart.

dsb38327 04-15-2010 05:06 AM


Originally Posted by Lostn51
After I was finished making her quilt I was hooked!!

Billy

Are the eyes under that beautiful quilt sleeping or awake? I love the puppies also. I am glad you have the passion for sewing and I enjoyed your story. Thank-you for sharing with us.

dsb38327 04-15-2010 05:10 AM


Originally Posted by miholmes
Well I don't have a very exciting story, but here it is.

Quilting just relaxes me, there is something to be said when you are working in front of you machine and you kinda of hit a rhythem, where it's just you and the machine, and your only worry is your 1/4 inch seam allowance. :)

Well anyway, that's why I started quilting and how I feel about it.

Oh, I think your story is very heartwarming. When I read your story, I was 5 again standing in my grandmother's kitchen leaning my head against her tummy getting my hugs and kisses. Honestly, it's true.
I enjoy your posts and appreciate your sharing your knowledge with us.

dsb38327 04-15-2010 05:18 AM


Originally Posted by Glenn
I lived with my grandmother for several years. She taught me to sew by mending my play clothes. You know sew buttons and such. She said I should learn this so I could take care of myself. She also taught me to knit and crochet. I would have rather been playing ball outside!!! LOL We made a quilt together and I have beeen sewing and quilting ever since about 6 years old. I am now 63. I have her old treadle singer and all her sewing stuff, including some unusual pin cushions. I use all of it still today. I piece with the singer and quilt by hand. I am retired army officer and made all my wife's formal dresses for all the balls we attended. When I get a new digital camera I will post pictures. Glenn from Huntsville :lol:

Glenn, I enjoyed the story so much. That you learned so many things from your grandmother and had/have such deep love and respect for her. That you still love and use the worldly things she loved. Very enjoyable. I look forward to seeing photographs. Thank-you for sharing.

laralea 04-15-2010 06:14 AM

I love all of your stories. They are uplifting and bring extra sunshine to my day. Thanks for sharing them!

fktsewing 04-15-2010 06:15 AM

Thought I would throw in what started my son quilting. He was always in the sewing room with me when he was little, looking at fabrics and patterns. He was and is my biggest fan and supporter for this craft. He got into theatre and started making costumes for plays as well as acting. Let me bactrack that he lives south of London, England in Croydon. A couple of years ago, he got very sick with shakes, panic attacks, and when I went to visit him because I was so worried, he had not left his flat except to go to the doctors. The first couple of days were rough, but then we went to see some sights close to his place on short excursions. He said he needed curtains and things made for the apartment. So we headed for the quilt shop to look at fabrics. He found some he loved and we then went to the sewing machine dealer over there. We found him a really nice machine that was a trade in and spent most of the rest of that week sewing like crazy. Little by little, I noticed that he was becoming his old self again. A friend of his over there was expecting so I suggested he get fabrics and make a baby quilt. Well, that was all it took. He has made several quilts since then and now when he gets stressed, he sews and quilts. He is totally fine now, and the docs do not have a clue as to what happened or why. His doc now recommends sewing/quilting to his patients who are struggling with problems. It is so cool!!! He is supposed to come visit this summer and I plan on having a couple of days where we just sew and quilt.

sewnsewer2 04-15-2010 06:42 AM

What a great thread! I always wondered how men got started quilting, and I admire men who quilt!! Quilting isn't just a woman's thing. :lol:

My goodness Eddie, I thought you have been quilting for years from seeing your work, you amaze me as all you men do! :thumbup:

My son made a quilt in the 8th grade, but not since. He is amazed at the quilts I make now.

Keep the stories coming guys, really enjoy reading them. :-D

heidikins 04-15-2010 08:05 AM

What a great thread! Thank you all for sharing your stories with us! Heidi


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