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skavanau 01-17-2011 07:19 AM

I dont know whats the matter with me. Ever since Christmas Ive only sewn for maybe a day. Its like I think about patterns in my mind but I dont "get up" and do anything. Anybody every have this happen.

Cyn 01-17-2011 07:20 AM

Yes, I do but I haven't found an answer to it yet !

suebee 01-17-2011 07:21 AM

All the time!!! :) I started to make a list and Im starting with #1 and stickin to it. Good luck.

Hey, I just noticed you are from Gilbert. We are in Mesa! We lived in Gilbert for 10 years, downsized and ended up in Mesa. Are you going to the quilt show at the end of this month??

fidgety 01-17-2011 07:21 AM

almost every day now since xmas. I think my getup and go got up and left... :-(

skavanau 01-17-2011 07:24 AM

Thats exactly how I feel. I love to quilt but its like I have no energy, no motive to do anything. And I have stuff, lord knows I have stuff I can do, but nothing.

skavanau 01-17-2011 07:25 AM

OF COURSE Im going to the quilt show. And I live in Mesa now to. We had to downsize....

raptureready 01-17-2011 07:26 AM

I think it's because we all worked so hard to get things done before Christmas and were used to working under a LOT of pressure from every direction--the house, the sewing machine, the kitchen, the stores. Now the shopping, cooking, cleaning, sewing, etc., is all done and the pressure's gone. We've used ourselves up and need some time to re-fuel. The best thing I've found is to go on a retreat, take a class, go to a quilt show, or something like that to get yourself back in the mood. (I'm leaving for a weeks retreat early Friday morning).

raptureready 01-17-2011 07:28 AM


Originally Posted by skavanau
OF COURSE Im going to the quilt show. And I live in Mesa now to. We had to downsize....

You guys should get together since you both live in the same town now. Maybe you could car pool to the show. Maybe a luncheon get together and mini-shop hop would get you both in the mood to start in again. Sounds like so much fun I wish I lived in Mesa too.

Sandy-lou 01-17-2011 07:31 AM


Originally Posted by skavanau
I dont know whats the matter with me. Ever since Christmas Ive only sewn for maybe a day. Its like I think about patterns in my mind but I dont "get up" and do anything. Anybody every have this happen.

its called quilters block, mine is sorting and looking at patterns but no sewing takes a while to get back into the swing. Try a a small project then once you start yo wont want to stop.

irishrose 01-17-2011 07:35 AM

No problem with the quilting - of course, I had an upcoming birthday to motivate me, but I have no energy for housekeeping or cooking. My dogs make sure I walk them. The house is starting to speak me to. Right now it says 'get these Christmas decorations out of here.'

skavanau 01-17-2011 07:39 AM

Yeah We could meet at the quilt show. PM me if you want to get together. I guess to thats really why Im diffenetly going. I think walking amoung all that FABRIC will help me.

dforesee 01-17-2011 07:43 AM

I am having the same problem, but in my case it is due to letting my day job stress get in the way. Quilting used to be my relaxation and mental getaway from stress, but lately my job has been so stressful that I am too mentally exhausted to do anything else. I was just telling myself I need to get a handle on this, if no other way, by committing to spend at least a few minutes each day quilting. I "long" to get back to it; just can't seem to find the energy.

skavanau 01-17-2011 07:44 AM

Hey I just notice your living in Virginia. Where in VA. Im orginally form the Blue Ridge area, down by Mt Airy NC, you Mayberry..

willferg 01-17-2011 07:45 AM

I'm trying to get my sewing room in order. I find if I leave some pieces of fabric out, I get distracted from whatever project I've decided on and start thinking about what I want to do with the other fabrics laying around. Bottom line, nothing gets done!

Iluv2quilt 01-17-2011 07:46 AM

This happens to me too. I just started to make quite a few wallhangings as gifts (small accomplishments), then hoping to sew on a quilt I started before Christmas. Enjoy the quilt show, hope you get your inspiration back. :-D :-D

skavanau 01-17-2011 07:49 AM

I do the same thing. All my fabric has to be put away or my mind just goes off on its own with a million different things I want to do. What Im working on is the only thing I can have out at a time.

Grama Lehr 01-17-2011 07:51 AM

I too am in a slump! Ever since July I would race home and sew, I had so many things to get done by Christmas. Now, I just veg out when I get home from work. I have put some hand sewing by chair, but I haven't touched it. I know that it will only take an hour or so of sewing while watching TV, but I can't seem to get started. HELP!! :cry:
A friend and I are going to Road to California this weekend, I am so wishing that it will get me out of my slump. I get so mad at myself for wasting time.
It makes me feel much better to find out that I am not alone.

wolph33 01-17-2011 07:54 AM

I think we all hit slumps -you will recover-I have been making quilts for over 30yrs and have had some slumps that lasted a yr or so-but I always come back to it.I am in a quilting slump now.I have more than a laundry basket full of tops to be quilted.I just keep making more,lol

feffertim 01-17-2011 08:02 AM

Yes it happens to me too, but I learned the hard way if I don't feel like sewing, I don't because then I make mistakes.One day all of a sudden I can't wait to sew again. When I'm not in the mood I go to this site and satisfy my quilt addiction

fidgety 01-17-2011 08:03 AM


Originally Posted by skavanau
Hey I just notice your living in Virginia. Where in VA. Im orginally form the Blue Ridge area, down by Mt Airy NC, you Mayberry..

Yeah I am farther north. The staunton area. I do however have a sister in law that lives in Mayberry!!! lol Mt Airy.

lovingmama 01-17-2011 08:24 AM


Originally Posted by raptureready
I think it's because we all worked so hard to get things done before Christmas and were used to working under a LOT of pressure from every direction--the house, the sewing machine, the kitchen, the stores. Now the shopping, cooking, cleaning, sewing, etc., is all done and the pressure's gone. We've used ourselves up and need some time to re-fuel. The best thing I've found is to go on a retreat, take a class, go to a quilt show, or something like that to get yourself back in the mood. (I'm leaving for a weeks retreat early Friday morning).

I think you nailed it!

lovingmama 01-17-2011 08:26 AM


Originally Posted by skavanau
Yeah We could meet at the quilt show. PM me if you want to get together. I guess to thats really why Im diffenetly going. I think walking amoung all that FABRIC will help me.

Already sounds better, I've think the quilting bug is slowly but surely returning!

Enjoy your time together!

Dawnmarieodya 01-17-2011 09:15 AM

I have the same problem but havent finished a couple of Christmas lap quilts.Our son and 4 grand kids moved in three weeks ago and Ive been so busy doing laundry aand school home work every night and just picking up that i havent even started on un finished quilts.Every thing got throwen in my sewing room to make room so havent gone in there.I need help in setting up my room.Im over welmed by the sorting and rearanging.I live in casa grande,Az so it would be fun to go to a quilt show never been to one.Tucson has one coming up.Have been told it is a great one.

skavanau 01-17-2011 03:15 PM

Well Im going if you want to meet me there PM me . I have my daughter and GD, that MAY be going. So let me know if your interested.

0tis 01-17-2011 07:35 PM

I have been in a slump too- I think it has to do with the winter also - I notice that I kind of slow down in winter - I have a baby quilt on the LA - and only 1/2 done - the baby will be born in Feb. so I better get on it.

bjnicholson 01-17-2011 07:37 PM

Yes. I do right now. I finally cut out a mini bow tuck this afternoon, but I've only sewn the front pocket together. At this rate it will make a nice Christmas gift for someone!

juliea9967 01-18-2011 04:15 AM

I do the same thing once or twice a year. I think I just burn out for awhile. Pretty soon though I am back at it. Guess I occasionally just need a "rest" from sewing.

nantucketsue 01-18-2011 04:49 AM

Me too. I have a baby quilt project but having problems with the design and can't find the fabrics I want. Without the fabric I can't finalise the design so it's a vicious circle. The baby is already six months old!

psychonurse 01-18-2011 05:33 AM


Originally Posted by dforesee
I am having the same problem, but in my case it is due to letting my day job stress get in the way. Quilting used to be my relaxation and mental getaway from stress, but lately my job has been so stressful that I am too mentally exhausted to do anything else. I was just telling myself I need to get a handle on this, if no other way, by committing to spend at least a few minutes each day quilting. I "long" to get back to it; just can't seem to find the energy.

The above is exactly how I feel. I have been on vacation this week and have got nothing done. I love my sewing room and the purr of my sm. Why is the stress of this JOB getting in the way of my fun.

blzzrdqueen 01-18-2011 05:41 AM

I'm feeling the same thing. I just want to rest, and not do anything...I've been working on a bow tuck and a quilt top for 2 weeks...only sewing once in a while...I just don't have the energy or patience!

supergma 01-18-2011 06:10 AM

I also crochet. After the whirlwind of getting everything finished for Christmas, I'm not very motivated to quilt. So, I crochet for about a month, and look through my quilt magazines and patterns. I usually find one that I "just have to do right now".

quilter68 01-18-2011 06:35 AM

Several times a day. Another on -line quilt site has a "Sew Daily Challenge". It is a challenge to yourself. A minimum of 15 mins. daily . It starts me up and I do more than the 15 minutes.

skavanau 01-18-2011 06:44 AM

Well after reading all my replys its good to know Im not alone. Thank you everyone for making me feel better. I hope we all get out of the slump soon. Maybe when spring comes, that should do it, I hope. Sharon

Roberta 01-18-2011 06:56 AM


Originally Posted by fidgety
almost every day now since xmas. I think my getup and go got up and left... :-(

Me too!

Jill 01-18-2011 07:07 AM

I've had it happen several times, and I'm not sure what the answer is. I think that maybe looking at magazines or online fabric sites could get your interest going, maybe going through your stash, I just don't know. I do know for certain that in my case it finally passed and I was sewing again every day. I do remember during one of my slumps that I was fearful the mood would never end and I'd not want to quilt again, but I was very wrong.

Deborah12687 01-18-2011 07:22 AM

I have been in a slump since after xmas and all I have been doing is organizing and doing other things. Very tired of looking at piles of snow, shoveling and the cold. This past weekend my hubby and I went to my favorite quilting store and found some very nice fabric that I am excited to sew. Just getting out and away from home helped to get me back on track.

Grama Lehr 01-18-2011 07:35 AM

Good husband!! :thumbup:

minstrel 01-18-2011 07:43 AM

I'm in there with the rest of you, except I haven't done any significant quilting for almost a YEAR! Got on a roll with my other crafty pursuits (rubberstamping - made all my Christmas cards - crocheting, scrapbooking) and then just didn't get back to my quilting :-( I just made a small quilt to put on the back of an antique chair that used to be my grandmother's and then a little bed-type thing for my dd's guinea pigs (she LOVES her piggies! LOL). Now I'm looking at a UFO that's been sitting in my quilting room that I "ought" to finish and don't wanna! So I'm playing with my EQ and working up something else. Think I'll start something new. :roll:

quilt3311 01-18-2011 07:45 AM

Most I know have these spells when they just cannot stitch anything, when that happens to me I get out my graph paper and pencil and sketch ideas. In a few weeks or a month the mood passes and I'm back stitching again.

QuilterChick 01-18-2011 07:51 AM


Originally Posted by raptureready
I think it's because we all worked so hard to get things done before Christmas and were used to working under a LOT of pressure from every direction--the house, the sewing machine, the kitchen, the stores. Now the shopping, cooking, cleaning, sewing, etc., is all done and the pressure's gone. We've used ourselves up and need some time to re-fuel. The best thing I've found is to go on a retreat, take a class, go to a quilt show, or something like that to get yourself back in the mood. (I'm leaving for a weeks retreat early Friday morning).

Amen! we're just taking a well deserved break. I took my Pfaff 2170 to the dealer yesterday for her annual physical, so she will be ready to get back to work herself. In the meantime, I can get some patterns all cut and ready to go. Oh, yes, a little fabric shopping for spring "stuff" this week too will get me back in the swing of it.
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