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bakermom 05-02-2017 08:37 AM

No, not at all.

Boston1954 05-02-2017 09:00 AM

It crosses my mind just a bit, but I figure that they did not have anything that appealed to me.

Onebyone 05-02-2017 10:04 AM


And I feel even guiltier if the shop is going out of business and I buy a ton of stuff at rock-bottom prices.
That's funny. It's not personal, it's business.

NZquilter 05-02-2017 11:55 AM

Yes, I do feel guilty, but I still generally leave empty-handed because I just go in to dream:) Last time I went in I bought some fusible webbing because every time I've been in I tell the sales lady "I'm just browsing..." That works the first couple of times but not forever! If there is a nice sale with prices below $4 a yard I will buy same fabric too.

Sewnoma 05-02-2017 12:14 PM

I do, sort of. Not truly GUILTY like I've done something wrong; maybe "awkward and uncomfortable and sometimes a little sad" is a better description.

It really depends on the shop - if it's busy and bustling, or if it's a shop where I frequently DO buy things I don't worry about it one bit; I'll lookie-loo all day and not buy a thing and not feel the least bit weird about it. But if it's one of those deserted little shops with the desperate shopkeeper who you can tell would do ANYTHING for you if you'd just PLEASE BUY SOMETHING...I always feel bad for those people, trying to make their dream come true and struggling. So I feel very awkward just walking out, empty handed, and always wish I'd seen something I liked.

Yes, it's business, but there's a sentimentality to it, too, or else none of us would care about LQS's at all and just shop online, right? I WANT them to succeed, just sometimes there's nothing there for me, and there's a regretful feeling when that happens, particularly if I can tell the shop is really struggling. I probably empathize with the shopkeeper a little too well.

bearisgray 05-02-2017 12:23 PM

What Sewnoma just said.

marge954 05-02-2017 12:27 PM

I only go to my LQS when I'm looking for something specific that I need at that moment. Since I'm retired there's no disposable cash most of the time so I have come to terms with working through what I already have.

MadQuilter 05-02-2017 01:44 PM

Leaving the LQS empty-handed? Sorry, not familiar with the concept.

Stitchnripper 05-02-2017 01:57 PM

No, not at all. Why?

MadQuilter 05-02-2017 01:59 PM


Originally Posted by Stitchnripper (Post 7816112)
No, not at all. Why?

So far I have always found something that wanted to come home with me. lol


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