Quiltingboard Forums

Quiltingboard Forums (https://www.quiltingboard.com/)
-   Main (https://www.quiltingboard.com/main-f1/)
-   -   How many are basically lone quilters or have close friends they quilt with? (https://www.quiltingboard.com/main-f1/how-many-basically-lone-quilters-have-close-friends-they-quilt-t21244.html)

Zoe 06-18-2009 04:46 PM


Originally Posted by Zoe
Bonjour from another Cajun who lives in the Virginia woods these days. I am lucky enough to have eight friends who love to quilt too. We get together once a month, bring our sandwiches, and quilt or sew together. There are no set rules, just bring some handwork, if you want to. Sometimes we just gossip and discuss any and everything. But we also split into groups of two or three to learn a new technique which is what we did with the One Block Wonder design, and the Tessellations design. Then we teach the others if they are interested. One of our younger members calls us "the Has-Beens." I am so lucky to have such a supportive circle of friends. And we are as different as one could imagine. :D

I always listen to my heart and that's the advice I would give to others.

tnjacke 06-18-2009 05:08 PM

Another lone quilter here. I do have quilting friends and we talk via computer and share ideas. I tried a guild once, but was the newcomer and did not get good vibes from the others. Got stiffed in the swaps they did, so backed out of that one and won't rejoin another one. There are 3 in the area I now live but don't wish to repeat the bad experience.


Eddie 06-18-2009 05:16 PM


Originally Posted by motomom

Originally Posted by Eddie
Being a man, I'm pretty much a lone quilter as a result. I checked into our local quilt guild which has a pretty large following. They meet monthly and their website newsletter indicates that they have about 70 members attend each meeting. But I was looking at the bylaws on their website and it says that the guild is open to women only and that men are prohibited from attending any functions. That's the reason my initial post here on this forum was to ask if men are allowed, I didn't want to step on any toes in case they weren't. Happily, we are! :)

Eddie, I just read this post, and I think this is so hilarious and stupid of a policy. You know, women were excluded from "men's clubs" for years (the local Sheriff's Posse horse-riding club still excludes women) and now the women are doing the same thing to you. Such a shame.

Some of my best friends have been men. As a matter of fact, one of my very best friends is a guy.

They are shooting themselves in the foot if they would restrict you from being a member. Your quilting skills are wonderful, if they only knew what they were missing, they would regret this policy. I'm sure some of the members would have a lot to learn from you.

Thank you, Motomom. You made me smile today. :)

judithb 06-18-2009 05:21 PM

I enjoyed the 1st guild I joined about 4 years ago. The second guild I visited I didn't join. the third guild I visited a couple times, but just didn't "fit". We all have different personalities so all the guilds/clubs will have different personalities, You just make an adventure out of your visits and find your spot! I may eventually join another guild and it may be the one where I didn't fit. Membership fluctuates.
Good hunting and above all...ENJOY YOURSELF!
Judith

judithb 06-18-2009 06:11 PM

Oh my gosh. How outdated, sexist and just plain silly! We have several men in our club, all are quite talented. At least one of then has been president and chair of the Dallas quilt show. Then there are are Mark Lipinski, Ricky Tyms (sp) just a few of the national professionals. those women need to take a good look at the old bylaws. They were probably written many years go.
Your note really gave me a laugh and shock at the same time.
Judith

Pam J 06-18-2009 07:04 PM

The best quilting group I know of is Project Linus. I have learned so many tips and received so much inspiration from this group. We sometimes have men come and join, and if they don't sew, they tie, and we have the most fun making quilts for children ages newborn--18 years old. No one is critical--every quilt is valued and given with joy! Although I work full-time, and cannot attend the day time workshops, they meet once a month on Saturday and I'm blessed every time! I encourage you all to see if there is a Project Linus group near you. They make up their own kits with simple patterns, and I take one home, dig through my stash and make two--one for Project Linus and one as a gift. Fun, fun, fun! :wink:

estherblair 06-18-2009 07:23 PM

I quilt alone too. my doggie and i ,he sits in chair behind me as i hand quilt. Just a little one sure hope i don't forget he's back there.

estherblair 06-18-2009 07:24 PM

I quilt alone too. my doggie and i ,he sits in chair behind me as i hand quilt. Just a little one sure hope i don't forget he's back there.

firehousequilts 06-18-2009 07:41 PM

Hi again from Colorado,

Here I am coming out from lurking, wishing all you lone quilters were here.

We have to greatest group of ladies that meet twice a month to sew and quilt together. We're a charity group, give most of our snuggle quilts to Colorado fire depts. The fire fighters give them to kids they see on their emergency runs. We've also started giving twin-sized quilts to a battered women's shelter locally so there's a lotta quiltin' going on here.

There are about 45 of us that participate in the Sew Days fairly often but we can also sew/quilt at home by ourselves, then bring the finished product in for 'show n tell' before they goes into the donation pile.

We've become really close friends now, that go on road trips and day trips and retreats together. It's wonderful having buddies that enjoy the same thing you do. Wish I could get you all here to meet them!

Dusty

judithb 06-18-2009 07:55 PM

Such a wonderful, giving group! Blessings to ya'll
Judith


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 03:38 PM.