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BellaBoo 04-13-2011 07:45 AM

If someone had stolen it they would get my vote to rot in hell. At least you know there is a chance for the quilt to be returned. I hope the address it was delivered to has nice people living there. More people then you probably imagine think that if it's delivered to them it's theirs.

twinkiedog 04-13-2011 07:46 AM

Just thowing this out for an idea. I would be willing to sew a couple of blocks and sending them to you. If we could get a few
of us together. Would you have the time and resources to sew them together and maybe we could get a quilt together for her.
We could all do line pink and white colors. Just a thought.
ruthie

fabricbeforefood 04-13-2011 07:48 AM

If you have a photo of the item, you can register it on quilterscache.com. Maybe someone will see it.

fabricbeforefood 04-13-2011 07:48 AM

If you have a photo of the item, you can register it on quilterscache.com. Maybe someone will see it.

klgreene 04-13-2011 07:50 AM

I had a package delived, at least they said if was. My address is 412. They delivered it to 421 and swore it was my house. The people at 421 were on vacation, so I didn't get the package for 2 weeks, but it finally got here. So keep your fingers crossed.

RDM 04-13-2011 07:51 AM

This is horrible news. My prayer is that this quilt will be found and in time for your cousin to surround herself with it so she may feel all the love that comes with it. A quilt instructor recently said never declare when sending a package that it is a quilt, say bedding. My heart goes out to you, let us know if it does turn up as I'm one praying for that outcome.

Lady Diana 04-13-2011 07:59 AM

Have your cousin place a "dummy box" on her porch with a note in it, stating please bring back a quilt made for a cancer patient. However, I would place a camera trained on the porch with the dummy box. We did this when our daughter's car was keyed. We caught the "trash" the nex time he tried to damage the car. These days you have to be your own police. I would also place a theft complaint with the Postmaster on both ends of your mailing experience. So sorry for your pain.
D in TX

roseOfsharon 04-13-2011 08:06 AM

I am so sorry to hear of the loss or misdelivered pkg for your cousin. It may show up yet. It would give me such pleasure to return a box misdelivered to me by mistake. Maybe the person has not had time to get it returned. My hope is that it will show up at your cousins or back to you soon. Prayers will be sent for your cousins pending surgery.

grammysharon 04-13-2011 08:09 AM

I am so sorry, my prayers are with you and your cousin. :cry:

LoriEl 04-13-2011 08:44 AM


Originally Posted by Antdebby1
Thank you all for the kind replies and information. I have found some more information tonight. I sent the quilt to the WRONG address. Unbeknownst to some, my cousin had moved and I received the incorrect address from a trusted family member.

I will call the PO in GA and hope that the mail carrier realized that my cousin didn't live at that address. Hopefully, my box is being returned to me. If not, I'll have to chalk this up to a stupidity on my part. One can't grow without making mistakes.

I will make her another quilt.

Y'all are all awesome. Thanks so much!!!

Hugs to each of you. :D :D :D

It should not have been scanned delivered unless it was delivered. If she moved less than a year ago and it was sent priority (I'm sure it was b/c you wanted her to have it) it should have been scanned forwarded. Hope it turns up.

LoriEl 04-13-2011 08:49 AM


Originally Posted by silver queen
I can relate totally to you. My experience 3 weeks ago: My daughter had her purse stolen on a Monday and in her purse she had her keys which included a key to my house and a letter with her 'home' address on it. I had just finished a quilt top and had it spread out on my bed and I left to buy some backing material. While I was gone that somebody who stole my daughter's purse used her key to enter my house. I wasn't gone too long...2 hours. When I came home I went in one door and they went out another. Thank goodness I wasn't gone longer! What did they take? My quilt top!, and the other quilt on the bed, computer monitor, electric tooth brush, bottle of soft soap, camera, watch and few other things. They had other things boxed up ready to go out. I know what you mean...work on making a quilt and it disappear...the time...the money...the thought of sharing it with someone you love...

OMG! Thankful they ran and you didn't get hurt. My car was broken into last yr and DD's purse was stolen. Thank goodness the house hadn't been left empty and when she got home the next day I immediately got new locks and changed all. So scary.

maggiek 04-13-2011 08:58 AM

Sometimes the delivery is made to the wrong address by mistake. That has happened to me when the address was close in name or the wrong street number. You might have her check with the neighbors.

purrfectquilts 04-13-2011 09:01 AM


Originally Posted by Twisted Quilter

Originally Posted by Antdebby1
Yes, I insured it, but the quilt cannot be replaced.


Sorry to hear about your quilt missing. Hopefully it will turn up in a couple of days. I was wondering how much you insured it for, and how difficult will it be to get paid for a quilt.

Inquiring minds want to know. :roll:

Unless you have a written appraisal, they will only pay off based on whatever receipts you have. Always keep a picture of your quilt and the receipts for the fabrics. Or pay approximately $20 to have it appraised before shipping ... if this matters to you. For instance, if you used scrap fabrics, you really don't have many receipts and the only way you could show the value would be with a written appraisal.

blossom808 04-13-2011 09:05 AM

That is so sad. Hopefully it will turn up.

matraina 04-13-2011 09:18 AM

I am so sorry. My niece just passed away from breast cancer, leaving a young girl. I'd be devastated if I made her a quilt and someone took it. Certainly hope whoever took it has a conscience.

Eileen 04-13-2011 09:19 AM


Originally Posted by the casual quilter
I feel so bad for you and your cousin. I like to be a sweet, generous person, but I find myself in the "I hope they rot in hell" gallery. The theft of the quilt is such a loss for you both.

I agree. I'm in the "rot in hell" group. I hope that maybe their conscious gets the better of them & they return it.
I will be praying for your cousin in a speedy recovery from surgery & an easy time going through chemo.

chuckbere15 04-13-2011 09:28 AM

I hope who ever did this gets their just do. That is do wrong. I hope that she recovers and kicks that cancer's butt!

One of my friends is being put in hospice, the spinal cancer spread to his brain. I made him a quilt with all of his friends pictures on it so he knows we are with him in his struggle.

Prayers going to you and your cousin.

Doreen 04-13-2011 09:35 AM

I am so sorry that someone found it in their heart or lack of one to steal a box of anything! I would be sick to my stomach. To work on something special for someone and then to have it stolen is just not right.

loriea 04-13-2011 09:54 AM


Originally Posted by Antdebby1
"rot in hell" sorry if I offended y'all. When I wrote the post I was extremely upset. Yes, it is just fabric and I can make another quilt which I plan on doing.

Ultimately, this whole fiasco is my fault because I sent the package to the wrong address based on wrong information that I received.

Guess I'm the one who will rot in hell.

My thanks to all of you.

Don't be so hard on yourself. We all have done or said inappropriate things. The beauty of forgiveness is awesome. You are in my prayers, for the quilt getting to where it was intended and full health of your family member

grandma anna 04-13-2011 10:19 AM

So sorry this happened hope you find it.

littleone 04-13-2011 11:12 AM

Oh, how sad, can only pray that it makes it way to it's proper home. Wishing all the best for your cousin.

My time 04-13-2011 11:14 AM

What a same!I feel for you and your right you can't replace a quilt.

bettysew 04-13-2011 12:25 PM

We had a similar situation but with medication. Post office said they left a note in the box to pick up at post office, but we never received the note. We contacted our carrier who said this happens often. She went into the post office and started looking after another employee had checked for us the previous day. She found the package behind a shelf where it had evidently fallen. Whoever entered the info about the note, had not been honest...they had no clue what had happened to the package.

hawaiilove 04-13-2011 12:32 PM

I hope it was misdelivered and an honest person will do right and get it to her.

My thoughts are with you and her for it to arrive safely.

cassiemae 04-13-2011 12:35 PM

How awful the world is full of rotten people.
I really hope somehow it will turn up. That was so
thoughtful of you to make her a quilt. You are a nice person.
:(

heberstitcher 04-13-2011 12:37 PM

I am so sorry. If it was stolen that is the worst. What is the matter with people these days?????

qbquilts 04-13-2011 12:45 PM

Does anybody actually read all of the replies before posting? We're on page 8 now and people are still telling her to check the neighbors or suggesting ways to catch the thief. The OP posted on PAGE 3 that she was given the wrong address to which to send the quilt, which is why it was never received. Please, please, please read all replies before posting.

Dear OP,
I hope you can contact the family at the wrong address to get this straightened out.

gellybean402 04-13-2011 12:54 PM

I am so sorry this happened to you! Maybe the driver remembers who he gave it to? I know its a long shot but it wouldn't hurt to ask. I hope whoever took it was just busy and forgot they placed it somewhere. Good luck and I hope you find it soon!

dorrell ann 04-13-2011 01:07 PM

my heart goes out to you......

Katts 14 04-13-2011 01:10 PM

I'm so sorry,I hope the quilt turns up,I will say a prayer for you and your cousin.

okiepastor 04-13-2011 01:13 PM

Thanks, qb--I have been biting my tongue for several pages now!


My missing box is found---sent to the wrong person! Obviously I was having a bad day!

doll-lady 04-13-2011 02:05 PM

sorry that happened.

LoriEl 04-13-2011 02:16 PM

I keep checking back hoping you'll say it turned up!

Antdebby1 04-13-2011 02:20 PM

Once again, thank you all for your kind words.

I put a call into the post office of the city I sent the quilt to...Athens, GA. The lady I spoke with will talk to the carrier and give me a call.

I'm trying to be optimistic. In the meantime, I will plan and start another quilt for Mistye this weekend. IF the first quilt shows up, she'll have two quilts from me.

Jammin' Jane 04-13-2011 04:57 PM

Yes! The power of prayer!

Lois-nounoe 04-13-2011 06:31 PM

Wether you have insurance or sign for delivery if the package is lost in the mail it is lost in the mail! I sent a quilt to Idaho in January and it took a full month for it to reach it's destination this year. Last one I sent there took less than a week. I live in Maryland and when I send a package to Florida it only takes 3 or 4 days at the cheapest rate. Letters to there take 7-10 days! Go figure! Good luck on your package. I'm betting it will probably get there only later then usual.

NanaCsews2 04-13-2011 06:51 PM


Originally Posted by qbquilts
Does anybody actually read all of the replies before posting? We're on page 8 now and people are still telling her to check the neighbors or suggesting ways to catch the thief. The OP posted on PAGE 3 that she was given the wrong address to which to send the quilt, which is why it was never received. Please, please, please read all replies before posting.

Dear OP,
I hope you can contact the family at the wrong address to get this straightened out.

I keep trying to send my reply and it isnt going through for some reason.

NanaCsews2 04-13-2011 06:55 PM


Originally Posted by qbquilts
Does anybody actually read all of the replies before posting? We're on page 8 now and people are still telling her to check the neighbors or suggesting ways to catch the thief. The OP posted on PAGE 3 that she was given the wrong address to which to send the quilt, which is why it was never received. Please, please, please read all replies before posting.

Dear OP,
I hope you can contact the family at the wrong address to get this straightened out.

Sometimes we are all typing at the same time and eventually it goes through. 2nd time I am typing this as the first time my reply disappeared. I think we are all giving our sincere empathetic well wishes to the person posting who needs a hug and a prayer.

amandasgramma 04-13-2011 07:10 PM


Originally Posted by qbquilts
Does anybody actually read all of the replies before posting? We're on page 8 now and people are still telling her to check the neighbors or suggesting ways to catch the thief. The OP posted on PAGE 3 that she was given the wrong address to which to send the quilt, which is why it was never received. Please, please, please read all replies before posting.

Dear OP,
I hope you can contact the family at the wrong address to get this straightened out.

Hang in there...you only joined a month ago -- this happens a lot........and NONE of us take offense.

TonnieLoree 04-13-2011 07:21 PM


Originally Posted by Antdebby1
Thank you all for the kind replies and information. I have found some more information tonight. I sent the quilt to the WRONG address. Unbeknownst to some, my cousin had moved and I received the incorrect address from a trusted family member.

I will call the PO in GA and hope that the mail carrier realized that my cousin didn't live at that address. Hopefully, my box is being returned to me. If not, I'll have to chalk this up to a stupidity on my part. One can't grow without making mistakes.

I will make her another quilt.

Y'all are all awesome. Thanks so much!!!

Hugs to each of you. :D :D :D

I'm hoping this is posting on page 8! At least you got some relief that is was not stolen. It just might find it's way back home, like the lost dog that traveled for weeks after accidentaly being left behind at a state park. Praying it remembers it's maker and where it used to live.
Tonnie


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